Friendship and communication

Hello some of you may be going threw something similar. When you make a friend doesn't matter if it on a site or in the actual world. Communication obviously is the key if the person stops talking to you or deletes you for no reason. You ask what did you do to upset them? They say nothing or come back at you with great anger and you have no clue on what has or had just happened to make them turn that way on you. If the person would had actually communitcated in the first place maybe an issue could had been solved instead of unfriending people randomly or flipping off on the person. Try some communication before acting. It plan out common sense.

That part of the reason why I posted it. TI help people out I had someone message me all upset over someone deleting them off here. They tried to re-add that person, but that person didn't accept it. This person couldn't message that person without adding them. So this person asked hey? Why did you delete me? Did I do or say something that upseted you? For 5 days nothing than the person replys after 5 days. Making an excuse saying that this person sounds like an idoit how they type. Never using grammar etc. So if there was communication instead of trying to embarass someone which makes you look like an ass not the person asking what they did wrong. Please learn to speak what on your mind before doing things. Now if two parties think it best to unfriend each other than ya cool. But to just randomly unfriend someone not talking to them is immature and childish.

Same here I always ask what wrong or what did I do wrong and how can I fix the issue. If the issue is impossible to fix then go our separate ways. Never go separate ways until you try to fix the issue at hand first.

I think some people are way to quick to assume that someone is their friend..because they happen to get along/talk a lot or have things in common. Had to tell that to my sisters at one point, not everyone you "Click" with is a friend. I don't really understand why one would make a big deal from being unfriended without a reason, but that's just me lol. I wouldn't be upset over someone who doesn't want to talk to me. Feelings get hurt when you start labeling most people as "Friends"..especially online imo. Sucks that stuff happens, hopefully that person will be alright.

I also want confirmation if someone deletes me as friend but if they don't react after a message then it is their problem. They just lost a friend. I only lost someone who isn't capable of social interaction so they never could have become a true friend. If you can't talk with each other about problems then you aren't meant to be together. This counts in my book for all social relations. I get you won't talk with everyone about a problem, but even if it is a small problem it counts for me.

Respect is necessary for any relationship, I hope those who have talked with me feel that I have respected them, I have a number of people on my friends list that do not reply when I message them, I do not take offense though and I would not take offense if they deleted me. People are people and I cannot truly understand what someone is going through unless they are willing to be open and share themselves with me. Any friend I have here remotely just as in person, I am more than willing to have openness with. It is said that in interpersonal relationships it is the willingness to allow yourself Vulnerability is Strength so to all my friends and future friends I am willing to always be that guy, without Judgement. But not everyone is willing, and some will close off, or in the case of this website delete the friendship or just keep you as a friend and not repsond, this is OK with me also and while it is not something I myself would do, I just understand that the person is in another place in their life, so no offense is taken, just a wish for their continued happiness and growth. I have lost many people in my life, I just hope they are happy and at peace. May all beings be free from suffering, and filled with boundless Joy. :D

LOL don't learn to much from me, my openness and willingness to put myself out there can be scary to some, what you see is what you get, no pretense 100% me from the get go Bwahaha May all beings be free from suffering, and filled with boundless Joy.