Searching For A Soulmate...

-Am I looking in the wrong places? Just making all the wrong choices taking me in the opposite direction I'm suppose to go? -I know it seems like a silly fantasy or some romanticized notion, but what's wrong with wanting to be with someone you are completely comfortable with? -To be connected on every level with someone whom your completely devoted too on every aspect imaginable but occasionally give them a hard time and insult them when you play co-op games together. -Pay attention to all the little details such as remembering your favorite candy and bringing it on your date and putting in every effort to show that. I know it's a bit old fashioned, but I also know that is what I think all of us want. Who doesn't want to know someone loves them to stick around through the down and ups, overlook the flaws, or doesn't care where you are in life and wants to help you to achieve your goals. -As much as shojo manga as I've been exposed to I know it's a stretch to find something like that, but in my humble opinion I think anime shows reflect what a successful relationship can be like even through hard times and struggle, doubt, loneliness. It also shows how wonderful it is when you realize you want nothing more than to have gone through it with someone by your side. -We are on an anime dating site for that reason. Because it's great to feel loved and to love someone. To wake up to a text, note, or im, or giving a drawing, watching your favorite anime shows, geeking out, binge horror moviethons, playing board games, or hanging out with friends. These are the things I want with someone. To spoil, cook and bake for, have a good time, and all those great things. For now, I'll just keep up my hopes and wish for the best and be at my best as well. -Until then the search continues...I hope you all find your own version of your soulmate cause everyone deserves to be loved. If you have a successful love story then please share if you'd like :)

Neko, She's not a dude. Chicgeek23, Gonna be blunt with ya. No one and I mean absolutely no one deserves a viable relationship. What you're saying is that your value is based on another and if you don't have what everyone deserves, what's the point? You earn, work for and forge a relationship. There is no "you deserve" only "you earned". Life is for those who are willing to fight for what they want and need. Beyond all of that, you just sound painfully lonely and you sound like you need to stop dwelling. Best of luck in your endeavors, none the less.

@chicgeek23 that was very well said, haha i could relate to some of the things you said (especially the video game part XD i would love to tease a girl for feeding in league and then say "next match i'll carry you") but yeah you are right about everyone deserving love...will everyone find it? most likely not