Dating would be easier for me if...

What is a quality about yourself that if changed or removed would make dating way easier for you? Doesnt have to be one that you want to change either. For example you could say "Dating would be easier for me if I no longer cared about hygiene". Heck get creative with it :D

Dating would be easier for me if my brain would shut the fuck up and stop spouting negative bullcrap so I could actually begin to like myself and possibly not stay inside all the time =u=

If I didn't feel isolated from my parent's love as a boy which causes me to become upset by the idea of love and also feel unworthy of it. Making me struggle with romantic intimacy and self-sabotaging my own desires.