Any real dating sites that have success?

I've tried them a lot and I've payed for 2 and they all have sucked as most of them make you pay and I've paid for 2 failed web sites and i'm not in a rush to waste money on trash. So has anyone found a site that worked? I'm an active person and irl is just as bad as the net. The sub levels of compatibly is sickening at times as one needs to find the port that matches. 1.0 to 3.0 just wont work.

you are screwed my friend, but don't worry, we are all screwed , cause finding a person your compatible with in a sea of 3.5 billion females, it's gonna need some luck.

yes it seems that the web is full of guys looking for women and then the small amount of women get over whelmed and the environment become toxic.

none that i've tried mai seems to be the best

Dude just invest in yourself and keep putting yourself out there. It isnt as overwhelming once you take some of the pressure off of it.

It's hard to work on yourself when there's no one else around to compare or to get feedback from. All you have is yourself and that is not the best reference. Put yourself in a room for days and or in a small town and the results are very negative. Work and family has nailed me to this shitty area and I can't do collage. I have been doing stuff like working out drawing and stuff but it can only do so much. I can only improve with others now and the others don't come. I just got my first date irl and the next day over the phone she said she was not into it.

And then you say... Nnnnnnneeeeeexxxxxxxtttttt!!!! Life's a bitch and damn it if it doesn't bite a little here and there. However, life is made up of those willing to strive for strength and all you can do is use life's lessons to forge a stronger you. Just think of it like this, you put yourself out there, had a date, it didn't work out, but you were strong enough to give it a shot, despite knowing there's ALWAYS a chance of failure. If all you did was win, life would get pretty boring pretty fast. But, the great thing about a strike is, when you finally hit that home run, victory will taste that much sweeter.