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Am I a bad conversationalist?

yoyoitsnsfw
It's just when people don't reply rather than saying they're busy. Do they have something important to do? Are they ignoring me etc. I think we clicked and that's why it bothers me so much? Idk if I did something wrong or if they're shy.
yamadaed
Jan 18, 17 at 11:03am
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steelblight
Sometimes when people are busy they want to talk on/off throughout the day and constantly saying brb gets tedious so they don't. I wouldn't think theyre ignoring you if you seemed to click, they probably just genuinely got busy.
ryutsukun
I might not answer right away but I'll always try to answer. As for others, some just might be interested. Some people find it easier to just post on walls rather through direct message. I myself hate the direct messaging system. It forces you to manually click enter at times and will most likely force you back into the main message list instead of keeping you with the same person. The first... 3 or 4 friends I made on here either work full-time or just have a busy life. You gotta just be patient man, I'm sure it'll become easier. @Ed I'm the same way, I'll answer regardless if I'm busy. It all depends when I check my phone. @Dat I also get very anxious if someone doesn't answer back, though I got used it to it after I gained social experience .(I used to be socially awkward when I was younger because of a physical disability.)
hell_hound7
i always answer whenever i can, the only time you wont hear from me is when im playing league (matches can be anywhere from 20-60 minutes long). but i reply when i can, although i wont keep a conversation going if it looks like the person has no interest in talking to me. if i give them a long reply and they give me something like "oh thats cool" or "lol" i'll pretty much end the conversation there. i also dont message anyone im not close with first >.> like i said if i bore them then i feel like i would just be a bother
yamadaed
Jan 18, 17 at 11:20am
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