Porn desensitization

Vamp, Used to being an outcast? XD Sooooo edgy... It has nothing to do with suppressing anything, but you do you.;)

Don't judge me xD.. Okay so invited this chick over after two weeks of talking to her. She would show me her tits on snapchat. I'd send a dick pic. you know the deal xD. But when she got over she was kinda a lil bit bigger than I thought.. But o well big girls need love to I thought xD but after 30 minutes of watching Ted 2, I was like "fuck it" I grabbed the back of her neck and started Kissing her neck. Needless to say we were naked in the next couple of minutes try to do the dirty xD.. But I couldn't get hard.. I felt bad. Not cause of me but I could tell she thought there was something wrong with her.. So I instead just put two finger in the pink one in the stink and went to town... She soon forgot all about it. But I think porn has made my expectations to great.. Normal women don't look like pornstars... Not even pornstars look like pornstars. They are hidden underneath so much makeup we would never recognize them. Should I stop watching porn?

I have no issues with fat women, just not over 300lbs please, starts to cause issues. But I do prefer girls I can be active with besides sex.

I myself found it hard to actually get off from my own girlfriend I while dating her. I had spent many moons with what I'd call my so-called digital porn stash and a sock... After we started dating and doing the nasty, I found it hard to actually get off. The sex, no doubt was wonderful but when it came to her pleasuring, I had watched porn so much, it was hard to get off without helping her pleasure me. Porn is a wonderful thing but, the industry has standards and it bugs me. You have to do this correctly in order to stimulate and that correctly to finish. You have to look a certain type and this and that. The porn industry ends up dictating what you like and don't like long before you even try it.

Ryutsu, It becomes like any other media source, in that it molds your mind into certain ways of thinking and or expectations. Now, I'm not saying porn is a bad thing, far from it. However, there's kind of a line that everyone has and it's different for everyone, but once you cross it, it's hard to go all the way back.(Hard, but not impossible. )Watching porn just trains your mind and body in ways that may not be conducive for relationshipsale, but it really boils down to moderation in my opinion.

True, true. I've studied sexuality in media for research for my psychology studies so I get that. Wasn'ty trying to say its a bad thing., really.