Who Is "Ruining" America?

The fact that you had bad experiences in the past with men sucks and you have my sympathy for it but that does not in mind mind justify bias toward them anymore than a misogynist that hates women because of a few bad experiences. Also domestic violence incidents are already heavily biased against men and provably so. This is not even taking into account the number of men who wouldnt report being abused by a female.

yes and i agree thats horrible the masculinity thats thrown on men from the time there born is unfortunate and much stronger then the need to be feminine with women BUT the fact shows men are still more violent they rape much more they run from families much more plus they judge women much more then women judge men

I'm not saying that we should consider someone as insignificant simply because they don't produce the same as someone else. But in my mind the distinction does matter.

but i will say with men leaving the house it usually is childhood sources that make them do that if i man is raised without a father he is much more likely to leave aswell so its a vicious cycle

Okay first off... don't even go there. If "made to penetrate" were treated as rape then it might surprise you to know that women actually rape men in very comparable numbers to the opposite. And again this isnt even factoring the frankly outrageous reaction most men who even claimed to get raped by women get. Or the hilarious lack of accountability to the women who falsely accuse, maliciously or otherwise. I have personally had a friend whose life was ruined by this very issue. Secondly, if you ignore women who drop kids off at adoption or who abort children out of a desire to not raise a family as oppossed to men who have no such option then I guess you have a point. But as soon as sperm hits egg, regardless of desire or preparation, that man has consented to fatherhood. Whereas women can choose even after giving birth to give their child away. In some states without even alerting the father. But I guess none of that counts as running away. And for the last one. No just no. Shouldnt even dignify it. That is purely your perception and own bias. You have no way of knowing the full thoughts of even the men you have experience with let alone all the men on the planet.

are you seriously saying women rape men as often?????? can you post a real article about it?? (reliable, i hate articles these days) yes false rape accusations are horrible and hurt both men and women on that spectrum many rapist also dont face punishment or even a trial because of this shitty outdated system!!! https://www.rainn.org/sites/default/files/Out_Of_1000_Rapes%20122016.png im pro abortion soooo im not even gonna touch that :P

http://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2014/09/22/rape-cdc-numbers-misleading-definition-date-forced-sexual-assault-column/16007089/ http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/ And the actual CDC study done in 2014. Just ask if you'd like me to point you where to: https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss6308a1.htm Let me know if it's not enough. I can also show you the report from the natio al intimate partner survery if you feel these are not adequate sources. Also, and I am not sure how you feel about this but I would rather the rapist go free than an innocent man pay for his crimes.