Failing at Relationships

What are some things you guys do to attract a possible SO? As for me, I suck at flirting so I take the direct approach but that's a pretty dodgy method as you could either come across as sincere or creepy ahah. Lets hear about your favorite method :P

Definitely being yourself is best. But you do have to get yourself noticed before you get a chance. I've had some really good conversations with people in a queue because I smiled at them and said hi. Sometimes that's all it takes, be prepared to engage someone in conversation first and then once you have their attention the world is your oyster. Just be prepared that some people won't want to talk back and that's nothing against you.

I would say be yourself, but nowadays, people are superficial fucktards. So, be a douchebag, get the girls. Rinse and repeat.

@Illuminous, "jailbabes" you can probably find some in for murder. Too many anti-social people complain about not being able to find anyone. Talking on websites to girls half way across the continent rarely helps. You need to socialize in person, on a regular basis. Be yourself if you want a girl to like you for who you are. Or else get a flashy sports car and show off your money, gold digging girls are a dime a dozen. If they think you are rich they'll jump on your dick in a heartbeat and coo about how much they love you etc.

I don't think you need to do any special or put on an act. If a person doesn't like you for who you really are then they aren't the right person. People nowadays see someone they like and assume they can get them to feel the same way. Unfortunately this isn't how it works and if there is no real connection or chemistry then we should move on. I also think flirting should be natural and not forced. It becomes cheesy and off putting otherwise. For me the best relationship are the ones that feel naturally and you just click with the person. You may have to wait for that kind of thing but i would rather do that than be with people just to say I had a boyfriend/girlfriend. There is actually nothing wrong with being single. Why is it seen as such a terrible thing?

@loli_vampire: I don't think you understand my meaning or what I'm trying to express. I want a girl that is like a Yandere girl but one who I'm able to control when she gets upset or sad. Basically I want a girl who has extremely high emotional intelligence that she can act the way I want at specific times and do things like what different anime series try to express. Although not many people understand these emotions so that's why they aren't understood for what they are intended for. For example what do you see in this picture of my favorite anime waifu Katsuragi? http://media.animevice.com/uploads/0/9634/594383-yande.re_232636_bikini_feet_katsuragi_senran_kagura_swimsuits_torii_takashi.jpg What do I like about her what is she expressing to me in your opinion?

"I want a girl that is like a Yandere girl but one who I'm able to control when she gets upset or sad." I think what this person really needs is a licensed psychologist...