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what to girls think of guys who help around the house

nightnsky
i seriously wish there was guys like u where i live lol once a guy finds out i am a tomboy omg so annoying! urgg lol thats y i can like nvr get a boyfriend hahah
animecountryboy
haha here all the tomboys are never into going out with anyone... when at the same time they basically have a group of like 3 guys who are her close friends who all like her lol (aka one of my close group of friends lol and yes i was one of the 3 lol)
nightnsky
lol i kno like most tomboys dont rlly look for boyfriends yet but i guess i am different haha i can be rlly girly sometimes to and have a little bit of drama from time to time
animecountryboy
ya it sucks... cause all i like are tomboys... i cant stand girly girls for the most part. i want a girl who can hold her own lol i mean i dont mind a girl being feminine, but i just dont know, i want a girl i can both just cuddle with, but can also hold her own in physical activity like sports and if some guy is messing with her and i am not there she can kick his ass on her own lol a girl who looks good in both jeans and a dress.
kitsunerena
A guy having a share in chores/cooking is usually a plus for most girls. Esp. for when one partner is sick/hurt and unable to do that as normal. Tomboyish girls vary in degrees and age can change that. I switched between being obsessed with pink, dresses, and Barbies in 3rd grade to being more tomboyish when I was constantly picked on for those traits. I wore boys carpenter shorts (baggy and past my knees), t-shirts, etc. instead and tried to be less noticeable. Even when I wore skirts and such at that point I tried to keep it subdued.I got interested in more feminine stuff after I became a freshman in highschool but slowly have been increasing that and retaining a balance. I will have times of extremity such as dressing in lolita fashion and some cosplay, but that's part of working out who I am and want to be. On another note, I think when girls use "cute" to explain how a guy looks, we're using a comfort zone where other girls understand us. "Cute" varies among people, as any other descriptor. For me, it's a guy who is sweet, looks great, intelligent, and has a good personality that I relate well with; this being a basic list that obviously can be expounded upon.
animecountryboy
"cute" is a very interesting word overall, i mean there are cute kids(because of just kids lol), cute girls(based on look), then how some girls call guys cute(also based on looks), and cute things(ie cats, dogs, ect..) cute of any word used to describe look has the most meanings.
digitalwolf001
I don't see the point in saying anything to women who call men cute. Even if I wouldn't count myself cute, an action I do or a phrase I use may warrant it. I look beyond the "me" and at what type of person uses "cute". Innerly cutesy women use cute describe cute things. So if a woman is calling me cute, I see an aspect in them that I was looking for.
metaljester
I myself like to clean up I dont cook like a chef but enjoy doing it for others i usually like to help out because it takes less stress on everybody else since they dont do as much chores^_^
kitsunerena
As I said, the word varies in meaning depending on the individual using it or defining it. Kinda like people's tastes in chocolate, such as I like white and milk chocolate, but someone else might like dark chocolate or one mixed with mint flavor. So when I say something about chocolate, each person will have their own idea about it based on experience/lifestyle. @ metaljester Learning to cook some simple stuff is an asset when dating because the girl may not feel like cooking all the time but would enjoy something homemade. My ex attempted to make spaghetti when I was sick once, but I enjoyed the fact that he tried and I ate it even though I joked about the noodles tasting a bit soggy. I kinda taught him to make pasta-roni box noodles and he fared better on that venture.
metaljester
I know how to cook simple things and some more advanced things I just am no great cook and I do it because it shows you care about the person enough not to make them do it all the time to be honest im completely fine with doing all the chores myself for everybody else
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