Would anyone date me

theres tons of people on here and new ones come every other day don't give up. nothing worth having comes to you easily especially a relationship.

I see a handful of people from the UK join and youre not an ugly dude by any stretch. Send out some friend requests and start chatting. Just keep in mind like with most dating sites, youre gonna have a disproportionate amount of guys to girls and not every girl who joins here is specifically looking for a relationship.

I don't see why you can't get a date, but then again, when I was 20, the dating scene sucked for me as well. (Still does, but thats more due to living in a rural town where the young escape the moment they can legally be on their own, and the old are quite frankly still out of my age group.) Like Rain said, you aren't ugly. You do kinda have a depressing vibe though. I'm into nightwish and the occult myself, and I've got a lot of goth and wiccan friends. So I can say that even in the goth scene (Least in midwest america), women tend to respond more to guys who can beam the right kind of smile, and show they're fun to be around. If you can do that while maintaining a dark, deep emotional vibe (Without being downright emotionally unbalanced), you're already almost there to becoming the quintessential gothic lover that most girls who enter the goth scene were hoping to find. I can't really speak for the male demographic so much, seeing as how I don't pester my gay friends with questions pertaining to the science of homosexual attraction, but I imagine if I was gay myself, I probably would respond more to guys who didn't present themselves as killjoys, ya know? (Not saying you are, but given the context in your description and the gloominess of your photos, that is kinda the signal I get.) I hope that helps. In worst case scenario, I shall teach you the ways of the forever-alone hermit. Let me just say, its not as depressing as it has to be. XD

I know the feels man it can suck and i'm not going to tell you stuff you know like just keep trying becasue we all know that you would not just stop ur human and ur body wont let you. If I did have to give any advice it would be to try new things out and keep options open like coffee shops and such. If you can drive go out and try to talk to some random women. Your not a monster and as long as you come off as confident and kind they wont mind a little chat. Remember what Vaas said " Insanity is doing the exact... same fucking thing... over and over again expecting... shit to change... That. Is. Crazy."

Well, regarding confidence, that's not something you can just magically feign or produce out of nowhere. Confidence really is a bitch to develop, and sadly the only thing that I've seen actually work is to jump on the metaphorical treadmill enough times until you can get a feel for how fast you need to run to keep from smashing into something. The thing is, the speed of the treadmill is always different each time you try, so if you've trained for one setting all your life (Like most guys who play by the rules society laid out for them, and use the nice guy approach, expecting that a girlfriend will just magically fall into their life, thanks to how the media conditions us to understand romance), you're going to end up wondering what went wrong as find yourself staring at the ceiling with a splitting headache from a botched attempt. Suddenly everything you've been prepped up for turns out to be wrong, and that really shakes a person's confidence down to the very core. I mean there is a silver lining though. I believe that to have true confidence, you need to have hit the bottom and climbed your way out of it. For some people, they may need to do it more than once. -shoos away the arrow over his head-