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yaasshat @yaasshat
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yaasshat @yaasshat
That or, it's the internet and you lose some of the "reality" through anonymity. People tend to forget there's another person behind that screen. However, one is never owed, either. Social etiquette is weird enough offline let alone online. Of course, no response is often a response. Do you go into deep, long winded conversations with those you have no interest in, offline? Doubtful.
What I've found is that women get harassed more online and are a bit apprehensive when it comes to having a conversation, since it often leads to those who have an agenda under a guise.
Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
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Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
Yeah but the internet has also given women a platform where they reign supreme. A woman who would normally be a 4 irl and gets no one that wants to talk to her would become a 7-8 online where at least 5 dudes hit her up. The internet has really screwed up the dating market honestly.
The issue here for me isnt that they arent responding its that they are,.they want to talk to me because even when i end the conversation they will come back another day and try to talk to me. It really is just that they have no personality
yaasshat @yaasshat
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yaasshat @yaasshat
Some people like fours. Also, please don't call it a dating "market".
I've talked to many who receive dick pick after dick pick. But, yeah, it's just women's fault. I feel like you have issues with women in general, you've made a few toxic comments that put blame on women instead of people in general.
As for the responding? Yeah, just don't respond back. You definitely don't owe anyone a conversation or your time, just gotta not be an ass about it (Which can be hard after dealing with lots of people who just don't get it.)
Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
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Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
Where did i say it was the women's fault for anything? No where did i mention anything about women being at fault. I did remember i said the internet though. Seems like ur projecting here. Maybe i am toxic but it isnt without reason. If none of my reasons for the way i felt were justified then we wouldnt be having this conversation. The dating "market" because thats what it is. The ratio'd women basically get to have an Amazon shopping cart when it comes to relationships. Spend like 5 minutes searching on tinder and see what i mean. Women shop for the highest quality man while dudes would be ok with anything with a vagina. View any reddit dating sub. And before you jump on me for the shopping cart comment a woman herself said that. Thats where i got it from.
Also i feel its more rude to just come out and ignore someone if they are boring you. It isnt the person's fault they are boring. But at the same time at least try to engage in conversations if you are intrested.
serial sans @skeygeta
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serial sans @skeygeta
Why would it be rude not talking to someone who bores you?
It's just normal to talk to people that you find interesting and that you leave those who are not and for me that has also nothing to do with the looks. Nobody is 'boring in general' because people are interested in different things and differend kinds of people and personalities. So if a conversation doesn't flow it might be a hint that the both of them simply don't fit together and that's absolutely okay. For me there is no purpose in a relationship - neither friendship nor other stuff - where I have to force myself to maintain a conversation or something although I don't enjoy it in some way. :D
That would be a waste of time for both sides. I also wouldn't want someone to spend time with me when he / she doesn't enjoy it either.
yaasshat @yaasshat
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yaasshat @yaasshat
"Yeah but the internet has also given women a platform where they reign supreme."
Kinda puts blame on both... Just a thought.
Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
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Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
True you can always just break off any relationship that you deem doesnt work out. But most of the time just not replying or ghosting someone you dint find interesting is more rude than just outright telling them why you dont wish to talk to them. Or being mean towards them also has the same effect. I give everyone a chance to prove themselves not to be what i perceive them to be. I mean you never know maybe they are just shy and take some time to open up. If time passes and its the same then yeah cut it off by all means.
As far as looks go that has never stopped me from talking to someone in the past. But generally speaking relationship wise thats wherebit matters most. No one is that virtuous.
Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
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Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
@yaasshat thats kind of reaching imo. It more of this happens as a consequence of this. As in women the blame doesnt reside with them. They arent at fault. It is only because this happened that that exists. Take that however you see fit though.
yaasshat @yaasshat
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Not really reaching, but whatever makes ya feel better. I'm pretty sure you're a better guy than I may perceive from certain things said, though and that's really not being said sarcastically.
Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
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Panda-kun™ @hell_hound7
Well i mean reigning supreme doesnt really mean things in a negative light. So i mean what is there to actually blame?
I would like to think i am a good person. I only say my opinions i dont force my views onto others. I just dont pull punches when i say it. So everyone thinks im the bad guy. Do i hate women? No, infact i love women to death. But will i admit they are pretty shitty at times? Yeah absolutely.
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