Your worst exs?

As seems to be pretty common in this thread, my last ex was also the worst of them all. Our relationship didn't last long, about two and a half months. The first month everything was absolutely wonderful. We did lots of things, had fun together, it was great. After that, she went on a small vacation with her parents, and the week after that, she met up with her best friend (female, lol, I know what you might be thinking). Anyways, during and after those two weeks things began to turn bad. She told me that she needed time for herself, and after not seeing her for two weeks already, I gave her another week. Sadly, after those three weeks of almost no contact, she treated me like I tortured her cat or worse, when I tried to reach out to her. All I ever got as a response from her at that point were annoyed emojis and answers no longer than an "ok". I endured that for two more weeks, then I told her I couln't go on like that. Once again, all I got from her was an "ok". I got no explaination from her, no closure. Everything went so well, and then it suddenly turned so bad. I am convinced that I did nothing wrong, though. Today I actually saw her new profile on the dating site we first met on. My entire body and mind were filled with blind rage for a minute. That's all I have left for her. Blind rage. The worst thing is that I lost my virginity to her. I feel tricked, because she often told me how very dear I was to her. All lies, it seems. All these sleepless nights I have to thank her for. Ugh.

Before I get started just want to point out that this relationship was, I guess, semi-distance. I met him online (on this site to be more exact) and we only lived 50 miles from each other, roughly an hour and half train journey, so we met up a lot. My last relationship was pretty much a hellhole; the first month and a half was great and I was so happy but it just went all downhill from there, and he started showing me his true colours. He was controlling to the point that I couldn't play a simple game of cards against humanity with my friends, who were all girls, because it was perverted, he basically told me that I had to ask for his permission to do whatever with my friends, like wtf? He was also manipulative so whenever he would upset me he would basically tell me that it was my own fault and try to twist everything I said and tell me that I was being manipulative, which messed me up because then I would think that I was always in the wrong and made me think that everything that happened within that relationship was all my fault, when in reality it really wasn't. There were clear issues within the relationship but he would always say nothings wrong with it, and he didn't want to talk about our relationship whatsoever so the communication was just shite and felt all one-sided. He also didn't want to do much together because I apparently I ruin everything? okay then... He later told me, before I broke up with him, that he never even loved me to begin with, so with that I felt used just like what my other ex did -.- After the break up, him and his friend(s) harassed me online from time to time which carried on for 8 weeks after I ended the relationship. This was from someone that told me he never wants anything to do with his exes and said to block them because of that reason, and he doesn't like immaturity. This is all coming from a mouth of a 22 year old, who's 4 years older than me... Tbh I'm freaking glad I built up the courage and left this nob because he was an outright bully. I was so down and depressed when I was with him, and now I've never been so much happier in my life without him. My break up also brought me closer to my family since they all hated him and glad that I don't look like death or crying most days anymore. I've reflected upon this relationship as a lesson to not easily trust people on the internet since they may be not be acting like their actual selves and just acting that way to your tastes so you would like them. Also don't go out with someone that basically begs for you to go out with them simply because they don't want you to regret not giving them a chance or them to regret not getting a chance to be with you.

Poor Rosy Palm, don't cheat on her. As for my worst ex? That was my last one before I met my wife. I dealt with way more than I should've. She was no where near independent (always getting her dad to get things for her), she was arrogant, god forbid we didn't go out to a bar at least three times a week, she cheated on me while drunk,but that was supposed to somehow make it ok since she was drunk and then she emotionally cheated on me with a friend of hers whom she finally left me for (Which didn't even last for four months.) I made the mistake of living with her for 1 1/2 yrs and lost my virginity to her, but really, the sex with her was absolutely nothing special. But you know something? I was sad and hurt for all of one day and that should say something. She is a very distant memory for me and I couldn't care less what she's up to or where she's at. I was just as stupid for staying with her as she was for being a selfish bitch. I know I had my problems, but how she treated me, that makes my issues pale in comparison. I couldn't be happier that it ended like it did (No real emotional pain.) and that within two months after, I found the woman who would become my wife. I believe all things happen for a reason, even if we can't quite understand them at the time.

I've been in two relationships recently. before that was like 7 years previous. she was kinda crazy. she would lock me in the closet, or lock me in the apartment by breaking the lock somehow. She also got mad because she was slightly overweight and thought she was fat (i didn't consider her fat though), anyway. she was taking some meds to help with weight loss, but its meds to cause her to feel like eating less often, she didnt exercise, i tried to explain as much, but she just got mad that i could eat soo much (and i had too because i have high metabolism), so she ended up forcing me to not eat basically, i don't quite remember how, she just would yell at me, and do other things i don't remember whenever i tried, i think she also threw out a bunch of food and kept a bunch hidden for herself. also she would get really pissed when her computer didnt do what she wanted it to and would throw her keyboard around the room and wonder why it broke. i met her at a group therapy session place thing. we both have a lot of issues. but im generally quiet and shy and stuff. well back then i was. i didn't really feel much emotion back then. anyway, don't date us people with mental disorders.

Correction, loli... Don't date thinking you can "fix" the other person.

A girl I used to know "back in the day" basically she just used me to feed her ego and all she was interested in was *eye brow raise* but we never did it because we were young, and about once a year she texts me trying to get some even though she already has a boyfriend, and of course it doesn't happen. Never do another persons partner my dudes and dudettes.

Worst ex... Hmmm~~ Yeah I had one from here on MO. I never really had a relationship irl, because I'm too scared to have one lol So yeah, this ex of mine has been ups and downs like litterally not because of my trust issues but because of his shitty things. Well if he reads this and wonders why I fell for him even though he didn't even do anything to make me fall, that's because on our 3rd skype call he serenaded me with Coldplay songs. I never got serenaded before with my other ex because they're too concious (by the way even if he sang to me, his voice sucks lol) And then~~~ the rest is history I never want to repeat XD The best advice he gave me after I broke up with him the second time for cheating was "Neko, never go in a long distance or online relationship again. Promise me, you will never do it again." He must've perceived me as too weak and easy to fool, because he got me all around his fingers easily. All in all, he is nice. But he's still a jerk lol