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On a scale of 1 to 10, how hard do you have to work to get people interested in you?

yunoxyukki
@halo thanks man your pretty cool too http://1pun.ch/img/thumbsup.gif
burninghalo
Some people just want someone who fights for em and shows they care once in a while. Others don't and are fine not being bogged down by emotional stuff. And I like that about ya Queen xD Cause I do not like small talk. Tedious!
caleb_williams
I'm about a .00001 I barly get noticed in real life even if I work my ass off
queenmemester
@halo i dont mind the emotional talk, i embrace it as long as it isn't 100% of our convos. It's nice to bring that person back up either with a pic that will bring them a smile or just talking nonsensically. :D I love anything giving me that nakama vibes ;) Ur a cool bro halo. http://www.reactiongifs.us/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/abed_finger_guns_community.gif mango is #goalswaifu
gurren921
It depends what I want tbh. If I don't feel like socializing I'll withdraw my existence from the visible spectrum apparent to humans. When I want to socialize Im the fuckin man.
lugexd
I feel like a 2 or 3 honestly. Most of the time I have to message others for them to even talk to me. Even if they like me and have an interest in me already, I usually end up having to message first. And it tends to end up feeling like people don't actually care because of that. Which in turn makes me feel like when I do message people, I feel like I'm bothering them.
wertingman
4-9 That's a pretty big gap but here's why... Some days it's a 9. Those usually the day I'm caught off guard and day dreaming. I'll be enjoying daydreaming about anime waifu #1 then boom random conversation with stranger. Some days it's a 4, those are the days were I get to enjoy my solitude. In general I mostly get attention from the people I don't want it from. I try to hold the conversation since they are making an effort.
burninghalo
Lugexd you can't be thinking like that. Sure some people suck hard at giving attention or maybe they get talked to so often that they don't think about the people who'd like to hear from them. There are over 100 reasons why it could be like that. It doesn't mean people don't care. But if you carry that negative spirit with you then it does affect how you speak to people. You're a cool guy, so don't be so hard on yourself man.
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