For Guys: Do you have strong mentality?

I think I have a pretty strong mentality. I do get depressed but eventually I'll get up and move on. I can handle break ups. If they want to go, then they go. If I'm in like a 5 year relationship and being the best partner I can be yet they want to break up, fuck it. Their loss. It doesn't really mean I don't care about the relationship and the partner but if they give up on me, then why should I try for them... I believe a person has a strong mentality if they don't stay too long in the past even if they been through the most fucked up shit. It already happened and they need to accept what happened and move on. It's okay to cry for a bit and go through some memories, hurtful memories, but move on from it. It's done.

For Guys: Do you have strong mentality? Because I am my only judge, I don't think I have a strong mentality. I know my own flaws and I wish I was better at them. do I think it is stronger than most people? Maybe. Everything is relative to someone else and our own internal judgement is based on what we learned from society. Don't get me wrong, this is just a survey. Totally fine. Do you easily get depressed whenever you have problems in life? Not really. I just move on or try to be better. Always keep moving. I do reflect, but at that point I know my mistakes. The only times I truly get depressed when I associate it with an external locus of control. Do you think guys should have stronger mentality than females when it comes to relationships? It should be, but it doesn't have to be. Relationships don't follow a set formula and can work with any permutation. A strong willed male can have a great relationship with a strong willed or weak willed women. It just matters how they make it work. There is no perfect ratio. Can you handle breakups at ease? Yeah. I have had a few. I guess I just bury myself with work or youtube that I am able to think about the breakup gradually than all at once. I make an internal dam so I don't break. Other times the breakups are mutual and there is no drama and everything is fine. When can you say a person has strong mentality? You can't. You can assume things about the person, but we truly don't know someone to the core because we aren't them. Strong mentality isn't equally spread to all facets of life. Some people will be better suited to relationships or work or public speaking.

Well what do you consider to be strong in this case, a feather can be strong because its resistant to shock but steel is also strong because its extremely rigid. So to answer your question i think everyone is strong in their own way. This is specially true in relationships, for a relationship to work both partners need to compensate for the other's weaknesses and respect each others' strenghts As for the other two questions: I am like a reed in the river i merely bend with the river unfettered.

1. I believe I do. 2. I don't get easily depressed but when I do it doesn't last long. It all varies depending on what happened much like anyone else. 3. Nah, I mean imo it would help if someone were in the relationship, it doesn't necessarily have to be the guy. Its a plus though, it always helps having someone there to pick you up when you feel you can't go on. 4. Again it depends on the connection and how long we've been dating, but fairly easier than most I assume. Its mainly just focusing on yourself. 5. I think when someone can experience something terrible but still come out with something positive it shows how strong they are.

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For Guys: Do you have strong mentality? If I'm the person I think I am, my mentality is strong. Don't get me wrong, this is just a survey. How could someone misinterpret this haha Do you easily get depressed whenever you have problems in life? I don't get depressed but I do get worried pretty easily and I'll lose confidence in myself. If I get worried, that is the only thing that goes through my head though. Do you think guys should have stronger mentality than females when it comes to relationships? Yes. Can you handle breakups at ease? I would say initially it would be easy until a while passes. I've never fully gotten over a break up. It might be once every few months, but I always catch myself thinking about my exes and wondering how they're doing. When can you say a person has strong mentality? When they realize that they can bounce back from almost any situation.