Not really advice but...

Where all the single active members at? I like girls but if your a dude go a head and comment here too (so everyone can find people easier). Maybe we can all figure out who actually uses this site so I'm not posting on someones page who hasn't been here in months by accident just cuzz I saw them on my match profile.

lol I'm one of those people that hasn't logged on in forever and just remembered about this site. And yeah I know how you feel about "well it says its a match...this person hasn't logged on in forever". ^-^

I'm trying to get the word out with my cosplay face book page but I think I'm gunna have to wait till next years con to actually promote big time around here. I might post something up in a couple of my stores around here see how that works out.

yea thats why i dont use the match thingy anymore. I actually enjoy just lurking/posting more around the forum rather than browsing through people who hasn't logged in since 2010 lol. This idea has a potential btw. :P

Idk but wouldn't a lounge section in this forum would be necessary? Like exclusively only for those who seeks for their special someone. Or someone with the same interests, groups and all. Hmm... dunno.. hahaha.:)

Well I don't think it there should be one. If it did then it would just turn up into any other dating site where the horny people ( mostly guys) would go and try to score with girls. I'm not saying I'm not tryin to find a special girl to be with but I guess meeting through this forums and talking freely without feeling like oh this guy or girl wants to date me pressure it's better but that's just me

I think a active members chat room would be nice but then again that's why I made this post. Maybe a active facebook account would be nice too because when I went on the one that was there no one was running it and it looked like crap. The only thing I can take from that is who ever made this site treats it as a hobby and doesn't keep up with updates and bettering the site unless they have free time. That being said I have nothing against them for that as this is a free site and everybody's busy now a days with the economy the way it is but maybe if that's the problem he can find a couple different admins who would help work on the site for free. I mean I'd be down to run the facebook and if I learned how I'd be down to make up grades to the site when I had a chance. I do agree with Wallace though I don't want this to turn into my year book where it's a bunch of horney dudes and chicks just looking to score or trolls. (for the most part) I enjoy that the people that are actually active on here are legit and intelligent. Spam and in active members aside I still love talking on the forums to people who actually care and fell this place is great for making new friends.