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Well, I lost my virginity when I was 17. All in all a bad time. But, that's just how it goes sometimes. How I feel about sex? It's fun. A fun thing to do. But I don't do much offline these days. Or in now that I think about it. Anyways, I don't see anything wrong with causal sex or waiting for marriage. Everyone's gonna do it their own way.

sex if fine as long u dont make it nething more. when feelings start thats when people get hurt. stop making it personal people.

Yeah MainichiMaidCafe pretty much got it right, its all in how you make it emotionally. Personally I've been sexually active since i was 14 (no kids or STD's). I have learned to detach carnal sex form relationship sex and carry no feelings on carnal sex. I've had various partners with different tastes and preferences. The thing I've learned the most is to listen to my partner and respect any boundaries they have, also be receptive to new things they may want to try they now trust you and its a good relationship. So basically i was a Ho. Feel free to toss any questions my way that you may have about sex.

Honestly, I think sex is scary. Lost my virginity to a guy who was 18 when I was 15. He wouldn't stop when I said no. Been pushed into a lot of situations I didn't want to be in after that. I don't really trust anyone with this stuff anymore. I've had too many people lie and use it against me as a weapon.

In the end it really depends on what you want. It can be different for several people. Some people want it to make that special connection with someone they love or they can simply just do it for the pleasure. Its really something you need to experience for yourself. Can be lovely, passionate, kinky, fun, tiring (it is considered exercise lmao) , hurtful ect.... Find out for yourself and http://40.media.tumblr.com/19f4e2cb15bb586ff897ea1cdad0b004/tumblr_ntf5grLBWn1sl58vfo1_500.jpg