Any gay or bi otakus here?

@Maya Last time I checked you hadn't, so I was not aware of that information. Still, with you, the first thing you see is the age in numbers and then your picture, which makes it hard to guess. You can only say something like: "You look older/younger than your age." It's pretty subjective if that's a good thing or not. With me for example people seem to think I'm older when judging by my appearance (and also my behaviour frankly), which is probably meant a s a compliment, but I'm neutral about it. @Kiyo When'd you find out?

@Sanfi Yeah, you're right again. People usually say I look older that I am but when they judge my behaviour they think I'm much younger. Oh well, thanks for your opinion.

@Sanfi well two years ago..when i still in a relationship with my ex..and then it just happened..a girl transferred in our school..and in my eyes when i first met her she looked stunning..When she passed by i felt nervous and my heart beat faster..at first i thought it was weird coz i had a boyfriend and all i have been dated before almost boys..and a year passed by,the time I figure out what she is to me, i already been inlove with her..

@Kiyo Did it turn into something? Also, that's usually sort of how it happens for bisexuals, I reckon. With gay people it seems to be either denial or full acceptance and clarity from a young age. Still, with bisexuals there tends to be confusion about the fact that liking/falling in love with someone of the same sex somehow should make the person gay and not like the opposite sex anymore all together. Obviously that's not the case when you're bisexual. That's just my experience, though, so I hope I didn't offend anyone with my generalisations ^-^

@Sanfi It didn't turn out into something. One-sided love in my part..lol i'm scared to confess..i'm scared with my friends to find out that i'm inlove with a girl..so i'm fine with watching her..:)

@Kiyo I know what you mean. I have the same with certain girls (it's enough just to be near them and watch them being happy etc.). Do people in your surrounding (family and friends) know about your sexual orientation?

@Kiyo I don't tell some of my friends, because I like the whole gay joking thing. I'm not into them, but it would make it weird when doing the flirty thing if they'd think I might actually fall for them. Even though I don't, it would just change too much. If they'd ask, however, I'd tell them and if I'd get myself a cute bf I would definitely introduce them ^^

@Sanfi Thanks for today:) she just happened to me out of nowhere but i still like cute boys you know..lol

@Kiyo I'm still very much into cute girls myself too, you know, hahaha. If anything, I'm more on the guy side of the spectrum, but that's probably because of the bonding and trust thing that I develop easier with women. Are there any other girls that 'just happened to' you?