Grudges

I stopped holding grudges. Now, there's plenty of people that if something bad was happening to them I'd not lift a finger to help them, but sullying my hands by harming them? Fuck no.

Depends on what you mean by a grudge. I have a lot of people tell me I have to stop holding grudges when I'm simply just cutting people out of my life. Personally, I don't see it as a grudge. Just moving on. Now if by grudge you mean that you're going out of your way to be actively pissed off at someone, I don't do that. Not enough time in the world to waste it on stewing in anger.

Its really hard for me to hold a grudge against someone. even when i do have a grudge against someone im polite to them in public but unfortunately there are a few people in this world where i do not think they should continue living.

Captain Foxy in One Piece said "The Silver Fox never forgets a grudge!" I use to be like that but I've learned to forgive and let go. It works well but it's like learning a new skill. Focusing on yourself and what you want then past hard times is really freeing.