How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

drinking. No I try to change what I can with me but others are a lost cause and I do not even try. But no I do actually cope a bit by drinking; such a great past time till it gets out of hand.

I came to the conclusion that if you cant control it theres no use stressing out over it, i spent years stressing over BS i coudlnt change and now I just dont care, my mom gave away my dog because she was tired of hair on the floor disregarding the fact that I had her for 5 years and loved her. But what was I suppose to do? Not a damn thing I could do so I went up to my room let out a few tears and played league and watched netflix like I do every day. My dad passed away the previous summer, I let out a few tears and played league and watched netflix. Gotta move on, stressing yourself out sucks and does nothing.

I guess it depends on the situation? if its something that just recently happen i give my self time to heal from it and let it go, if its something from my past i let it go but if it comes up once in a while i work through it and move on and remember that i'm not there anymore

>A girl I knew in class was a total attention whore. >Never arrived to class on time and always made sure to make a huge fuss about it. >Didn't talk to her all that much, but I had a few conversations with her. >Her wrists had cuts and burns all over them. She wore t-shirts so she never hid them. >I asked her why she would hurt herself like that. >She said "No one loves me and my life is painful" etc., etc. >"No one loves you? What about your parents or your boyfriend?" >Answer she gave me was something like "They actually don't love me," or some shit like that. >Made a point to not interact with her too much after that, because she's too much of an attention whore. >End of the school year, she came up to me and asked if I wanted to go somewhere with her that Sunday. >I'm not good with these situations, so I couldn't say no, even though I didn't like her. >Sunday came, and we went to one of those tower car parks. >Just as we got to the top, she told me that she wanted me to be here as a witness for her suicide. >"Oh shit," I thought. She was going to jump and was forcing me to watch! >Had I known that she was going to do this, I wouldn't have gone with her. >"Not watching unless you do a flip." I said that to try and shock her into realizing this was stupid. >Complete shock was written all over her face. She thought I'd try and stop her. >"E-eh? You're not going to stop me?" >"No, go on ahead. If you really wanted to live, you'd stop yourself." >After a while, she got off the ledge. She walked up to me afterwards and tried to hug me with tears in her eyes, but I told her I loved someone else. She asked me who, and I told her to read the first letter of every line.

I can predict pretty much a lot of things people will do. Which is why I'm always cautious. I hate it, because it always pisses me off whenever I notice someone is hiding something from me or is lying. I just hang with the people that don't mind me calling them out on their bullshit.

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I try not to think about these kinds of things - especially when it's the depressing stuff. I just try to move on and never look back.

i just go for games and anime. If you cant change things, then dont pay it any attention. getting hung up on these things is just damaging.

If i cant change the situation after giving it my all, i just adapt to it, humans and most species on earth are great at adaptation and evolution, so no big deal