How to Cope With Being Single?

Lol I have been single all my life. Nothing to be sad about I am single.chubby.akward.and very weird but I don't see the need to cry about it, enjoy life, see the world and have fun chatting about anime with friends,the right time will come and u will find that special someone

I feel you since I'm single for about 5 months and I need to find a new gf so keep trying. About how to deal with it by watching and reading many books and manga. Play games and talk to friend or coworker. Focus on job and think how to advance to next level. Probably going to high degree but need money on that part. Redo and trying to better myself and show my ex is wrong for dumping me.

Stay strong. My heart really goes out to you on this. I've been single and miserable, and in relationships that made me miserable. How I cope? Work towards bettering myself as a person...the right person is coming for you is what I believe. So I keep trying.

Coping with being single doesn't seem to your biggest problem, it's just coping with being you that really seems to be the issue. You put yourself down and seem to have little confidence. Here's a warning, relationships are not bandaids. If you can't be happy with yourself, you're going to be extremely unfair to you and another in a relationship. Focus on being truly happy and yes, that means being happy being single too.

I've been single for a couple of months until yesterday and it's really not that bad. Sure, it's nice to always have someone to lean on and fall asleep with but being single has a lot of pros aswell. I really enjoyed being single because it gave me time and space to focus on myself and to improve myself. As Yaasshat said being single isn't yout biggest problem. You should work on yourself and especially your attitude towards yourself. If you feel that undesirable people will get that vibe from you aswell. You should love yourself before you expect anyone else to love you.

For myself, being single provides some of the most fruitful and fulfilling times in my life. It has been almost 2 years since my last "relationship" and during that time I've got the opportunity to make some awesome changes in my life, including getting a better job and getting a personal trainer certificate. Of course, relationships have some tremendous benefits, especially when it comes to companionship. But it's easy to lose yourself in them. I spent three years of college in one relationship, we eventually broke up because I wasn't even sure what I wanted out of life. I didn't want to slow her down, and once we broke up, I realized how many friendships I was cutting off just hanging out with her all the time. The next relationship ship I was in I rushed into just because I wanted a girlfriend. I don't regret many decisions in my life, but this is probably the biggest one. She definitely brought me down a lot and I lost part of who I was. I hated to lose her when we broke up, but looking back, it was an incredible blessing and I surely dodged a huge bullet by getting out of it. So I agree with Xynox and Yass wholeheartedly, among others. You need to find out who you are yourself before rushing headfirst into a relationship. Forcing something is one of the worst decisions you can make. So enjoy life, meet new people and discover the world around you. It's an incredible awe inspiring Earth if you just stop to look around!

Being single doesn't have to be a bad thing. Relationships have positives but they have negative aspects also. Don't spend the time you are single worrying about it. Have fun and enjoy yourself :-)

Okay I don't want to be mean or anything. But really? Few months? I've never had a date in my entire life and never even kissed a girl (yeah yeah I'm a loser yadda yadda yadda whatever I don't care xD). But I'm still very much alive and was never really bothered by it. Tbh I have no desire to be in a relationship unless it's a serious one that will last. What is even the point of getting into relationship just for the sake of being in one. It's waste of time and energy for both of you, and in the end it will only leave you even more down and frustrated than you were ever before. What I'm trying to say is, don't rush it and never ever dwell on it. I know so many people who did that and even though they found somebody, they aren't really happy and would even say themselves that they would be better off alone. But well....humans are social beings that hate being alone so they are trying to stay in the relationship even though they are not satisfied with it. As for myself I don't see the point in putting up with all of that. If I find somebody then sure nothing would make me happier. But if I won't, then well what can I say....shit happens. That's just how it is, not very nice but true. If you don't eat or drink or sleep then you will die there is no doubt about that. But nothing will really happen if you are single. xD So don't worry about it, and like many said already. Learn to love yourself. ^^