What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
Chocopyro @chocopyro
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
Chocopyro @chocopyro
I'd say Creativity for me is the strongest feature I crave. I love girls who have highly saturated imaginations. Unfortunately, emotional stability, another feature I also like is often traded off in creative girls. But I have hope. If I exist, someone like me also exists.
Next I would have to say kindness or at least empathy. And when I say kindness, I don't just mean passive "Walk all over me" kindness, but active, assertive kindness.
Happiness is a must. And I don't mean the girls I like are manic all the time. But someone with a general sense that life is good is... Well, it's sexy. And perhaps worse is the not the lack off happiness, but the opposite. Because snark is only fun for so long, and then it just drags everyone down after a while. Not to mention it tends to cause mental or emotional problems in children who are raised by snarky parents. Thats it! If you are Snarky! You are NOT allowed to touch my future kids! Lest I descend upon you atop a magnificent unicorn-llama and vomit sunshine and rainbows upon you! (The following is an oversimplification and not the actual opinion of the Andric. )
Other traits I like:
Adventurous: No, not as in "I like to try new things", although that isn't bad. I like exploring the world around me. Its always pleasant when someone wants to see what's over that hill or around that corner as much as I do.
Cleanliness: Because I hate cleaning other people's messes, and am much more likely to clean if I am dating someone who values cleanliness, as long as its not OCD level cleanliness.
Intelligence: It may overlap with creativity, but still. Intelligent girls hold good conversations.
Emotional maturity: While I love a child at heart, I'm not fond of having to sleep on the couch just because I don't have a preference for yaoi.
A sense of humor: Please don't let me be the only one who could make light of mundane situations
Otaku: Lets face it, I can't seem to date outside of this subculture. I've tried. Its boring.
HYNsan @hynsan
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
HYNsan @hynsan
A man that is respectful, has a positive attitude, he also has to be loyal . Has a sense of humor ( just a little of dark humor as well) Someone that is no addicted, specially of smoking. Likes my tomboyish self with the little feminist side that I possess.
And most important be ok with me been an ANiME LOVER
slapthefatcat @slapthefatcat
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
slapthefatcat @slapthefatcat
I'm sure I could make a list of traits that attract me, but the most predominant ones that do (at the moment) are a sense of self-discipline and caring about others and the surroundings.
kitty20 @kitty20
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
kitty20 @kitty20
Prolly not good but I find jealousy and a little bit of a possessive nature kinda attractive. Being playful and spontaneous are also two traits I really find attractive.
Akia_Emura @akia
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
Akia_Emura @akia
Gentleness/kindness. It's so rare in a man. I don't mean being lovey dovey but the boyfriend who marked me the most had this patience and gentleness for everything and everyone. It's so soothing. I've learned a lot from him and it what attracted me.
The goodness of their heart rubs off on me.
Sense of humor: Come on, we can't be cheerful all the time.
Respectful/trustworthy: the basis of every single relationship platonic or not.
Kairu Otaku @kairu_steve
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
Kairu Otaku @kairu_steve
Friendlyness, femininity, trust, kindness, caring, understanding, good sense of humor and sociable mostly but strong willed is a plus in my book. A girl who geeks out from time to time would be cute.
Just as long as it's not crazy fan girl screeching, that'd get pretty annoying. More like a tiny little squeal that's cute and adorable.
AoAGeneral @aoageneral
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
AoAGeneral @aoageneral
The trait that grows my interest quickly is games, anime, or convention talk.
Firelord_Wheeler @tader_salad
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
Firelord_Wheeler @tader_salad
I'm noticing a lot of buzzwords. Trustworthy, sense of humor, caring, easy going, kind, adventuous. These are great, but a little too narrow. It would be safe to say that nearly every member of MO would be looking for these in some degree. It's like saying "I'm looking for someone who won't chop me up, blend me into a smoothy, and feed me to their pet badger." Pretty sure we're on the same page.
I'm looking for someone:
Who would go out of their way to track down a stranger after they saw them drop a $100 bill.
With a calm and collected mind that can still laugh at the silliest and stupidest things.
Who can take turns being the optimist and cheer each other up.
Who's not afraid to be affectionate.
Who won't feel they have to compare themselves to my 'checklist'
(Haru~) @koro_kizama
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
(Haru~) @koro_kizama
someone who thinks being a friend is a true relationship...
ssj2morgan @ssj2morgan
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What traits are you drawn to from the opposite sex?
ssj2morgan @ssj2morgan
A girl who shares the same interests as i do, which include, anime, education, politics and music, but is also open-minded to new interest nor is afraid to speak her mind.Someone who wants to stay active and healthy and look good for their own and not for societies peer pressure.
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