Stalkers

i bet ^ i listen to tons of stories of them and it sounds like they really thrive on getting a reaction out of you and fucking with you

Yeah like he would call my phone and hang up, he knew about photoshoots I was planning, and then was contacting my ex and sending him information about it, and in turn my ex would ask me what was going on. to this day I still don't know who it was but it was someone who had both of our numbers, and because they used a Google Voice number there was no way to trace them. :'(

In some cases it is a strong attachment to the target. Usually these guys/girls want to know everything they can about their target. They also want to keep tabs on the targets' personal lives. In other cases the stalker is feeling bored and wants to know what his targets ( usually >1 for such cases ) are doing. This kind of stalker usually stalks his friends, relatives etc.

I feel stalked by reinhardt when I log in here. https://lurei.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/yy-e6-00-mari-chan.png

idk... I never heard their voice since they hung up every time they called. My ex and I didn't live in the same state, so the person had a number from D.C. which was close to him. It was a google voice number tho.

I know the post I'm referencing is 2 months old now but I feel like it's important to rebuke that person who was criticizing people who say "You don't want a stalker/yandere gf" The issue comes from the definition of what a stalker/yandere is, which is different than someone who's just really clingy, which is what I think people mean when they say they want a stalker/yandere gf. And stalker/yandere isn't as simple as just someone who's clingy but to the extreme. A lot of behaviours from these people will actively distance you from them in a relationship and sabotage your chances of maintaining something happy or stable. So I think when people say they want to be with someone who's like this, I think it's just because they haven't experienced what it's like to be with someone who's actually a legit stalker/yandere.