a broken heart

This is past venting, and she's right. Stop complaining, for the love of god you keep saying that because you are 22 that makes you old. Well honey I got news for you. I'm turning 22 in two weeks and I can guarantee that I'm far more mature then you will ever be. No one gets on a site like this, that is supposed to be used to meet other otaku, and threatens to kill themselves every other day. At this rate you got three options. Either quit your bitchin', get off the site, or kill yourself and get it over with. It really is up to you, but either way this needs to stop. (I'm sorry if this sounds mean, but this is really getting on my nerves.) Your ruining the site for other users.

If Ridingcatbus says something is getting old, I think we're all obligated to agree. However...there is an even older saying, "if you don't have anything nice to say...don't be a douchebag." Show me a rule that says a user on this site does not have the right to create a thread and express their feelings. At the core of these forums, that is what each of us has been given the freedom to do and if we are overstepping our bounds in our topics, I believe this site has an owner that can moderate the complaints we have. I am not the judge of what is fair, but would anyone like to be criticized for their emotions? I am not going to sit here and tolerate the persecution of an individual by a single person, much less the multitude.

fullmetallove, I believe there is a fine line between judgement/criticism and helping someone who won't accept help or advice and continues that way. I find this situation, at the moment anyway, to be the latter. At times I feel I act/think/talk like BrokenHeartGoddess, then realize that is not flattering either to myself or to those around me and do my best to quit or talk to someone so they can tell me that I need to get my act straight/be more myself and discuss happier topics and things to drag me out of that state of mind. It's all a matter of perspective and maturity, honestly.

FINE I'LL LEAVE THIS SITE AND LIFE FOR GOOD!

I agree with KitsuneRena again. There is only so long that this can continue. fullmetallove, you've tried to talk to her and so have others on this site, but it's obviously not working. I was just giving my honest opinion.

Verily I say unto ye WHO do we crucify by calling for another sister otaku's exile? On a serious note, she created this thread. And I got it, I come in and I read this sobbing suzie's story and try to all but ingore it, yet now I must respond because everyone can't just leave it alone. Well if trying to talk to her is 'obviously not working' why do we still come here? Despite everyone's sharp words, I believe we still come because in one way or another we care. In some way it matters to us, and we can not sit idly by and watch something that has gone horribly wrong. Sometimes I feel like taking on a problem head-on, to FIGHT THE POWAH! But telling someone to go away, and take their problems with them to deal with it alone is not the answer. What I am suggesting is... Now maybe it is time for us to leave it alone.

There's no need to leave the site, but you sure need to gather some positive thoughts and get better. Just try to remember what made you feel well...don't give up. There can be a better life eventually for those who have the courage to go on. I agree on what other users said, it would be great for you to move on from this issue. But I'm guessing you don't want more counseling right now do you? I think what you'd like is to let go all of this pain somehow...so if there's something you need to tell, we'll be here to listen. Make us know if there's anything else you need, btw it's great that you got a job! It's a nice start. Other users aren't trying to be mean to you, but to help you, we'd all be very happy if you could get better soon. Cheers!