lolilover?

I've heard two definitions of it as one is the love of prepubescent girls in a sexual way and the other is in a nonsexual, cuteness kind of way. Which is the real definition?

Lolicon is the genre or demographic of people who love little girls. It's always sexual. Some say "moe" is non-sexual, but honestly, I can't agree because more often than not, Moe is going to have ecchi/sexual undertones, like gravure models. Imagine a kindergartener posing in a swimsuit with a pose that accentuates her hips... seemingly innocent since it's obviously not genitalia or porno, but still sexualized and made for the purpose of pleasing MEN rather than mothers. If it's non-sexual for real, like little kids playing like normal, or kittens or bubbles and flowers, I just say, call it cute(or kawaii if you are speaking Japanese, but don't use Kawaii in English sentences or you will look like a total weeaboo).

I know someone for example who considers themselves a "lolicon" but they only like young anime girls not real "3d" young girls. So really, a distinction needs to be made between anime loli and real loli's. Sure there are plenty of lolicons who are also pedophiles but not all are like that. The ones you aren't pedophiles are offended because everyone assumes that they must be pedophiles if they like anime lolicon.

That's true, lolicon does not equal pedophile. Just like someone who loves adult anime girls may find real women repulsive, a lolicon might find real children repulsive as well. And furries(the ones I know) mostly find bestiality offensive.

But aren't there also "old"(age) lolis depicted? Do these type of lolis also depict a person as a "pervert"? I have read quite a few mangas where there is an adult loli and yes sexual and ecchi poses are always there as well as sexual innuendos. But they tend to be some of the more memorable and liked characters. Does this make you a loliccon per definition as well?. Or do you fall into a weird subcategory?

But isn't that with all fandoms? Look.at twilight horrible story, but had two extreme fandoms created one for werewolves and one.for.vampires. Extremes always make some views rot,its not the case with all. In the case I wrote they are not prepubescent, they just suffer from what in real life is a rare condition where the body ages at a very slow rate. You can be in your 30s and your body would be still in the teen years. So I find it hard to believe that this would also make you a lolicon :/ Oh well at least I know kids can be cute but not in a sexual way -_-