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scoopnokes
Mar 04, 13 at 9:03am
If you're not officially with person 'A' I'm sure it's alright to flirt with person 'B'. It would probably make your chances with person 'A' less likely to become a couple if you did but it should be fine. But if you are official with person 'A' then trying to start something with person 'B' would be wrong. That's my opinion. Why try to tie yourself with someone when the two of you aren't really a thing. Comes down to what if your best judgement since we don't all share the exact same views.
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ryuseven_0
Xu gets where I am coming from.
xueli
Mar 04, 13 at 3:48pm
I dunno. I'm cool with the casual dating idea so long as the other person knows upfront. Since it's just a casual relationship, it seems kinda silly to tie other people down to a whole future when it's more of a take it from day to day. If it's something that is becoming serious, then that's of course, not so cool. But I mean, I'm not the kind of person who'd like freak out if my boyfriend was like, man, that girl is good looking or whatever.
xueli
Mar 04, 13 at 3:49pm
But yeah, this is all unofficial dating and whatnot. If you're gonna officially be with someone then yeah, you and your significant other are gonna have to discuss the boundaries of your own relationship
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ryuseven_0
What the? Okay lol.
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josapswanzi
Eh, The fault line could be between a society of not wanting to learn to love instead of falling into princess or Prince Charming lap. The pressure to be perfect for the girl/guy you love on physicall urges can make you try and change your personality. Then when you slip up and show you are infact not the 100% percent person you shown there is no I can accept the little flaws he/she has. It is shown in western civilization we are getting lazier. We don't want to work for things/at things including relationships. Even I am guilty of that. I could try an learn to love a girl who is head over heals for me but, I see it as an inconvienece on my part if, I find a few of her flaws repulsive when they could be worse. Note being: I would be a lot further in life financially with a working spouse and have more genuine good times instead of drinking with my buddy's on the weekend.
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