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I have the worst luck ever.....

tsunpaper
Every time I date a girl, she ends up leaving me due to extenuating circumstances that she can't control..... I have been left heart broken too much... Why does this keep happening? Am I doing something wrong? Every thing is fine until something happens in her life... And they are not excuses to get rid of me either.... Why does this always happen to me?
leo_ss
Well either yes you are doing something wrong or no you just have some bad luck. If you aren't doing anything wrong then just keep doing what your doing, Which is trying. Trust me if you have the ability to worry about things such as love life, Your living a pretty good life.
tsunpaper
I suppose.... But to be honest I feel like my life is hell...
leo_ss
Do you have food in your fridge(Scratch that, Do you have a fridge), Do you have a car and a job, do you have any family or friends. If you have any of this stuff your life is anything but hell. Try living in the worst parts of Africa, that's hell.
tsunpaper
I have no family. Most of my friends are shallow. And also, is good to live if you can't feel anything?
leo_ss
Well that sucks, And yes it is. If you have the ability to live, you have the choice to feel, you have the choice to go out there and find how to 'Feel', Many people fight just to survive day in and day out with their family and friends dying everyday, wondering if they'll be next. I use to look at life like you, But once you start looking for the good things in your life instead of the bad you will see that you have a pretty good one. You have the choice to live, and therefore the chance to and choice to go out and find what you want, While so many do not. So stop feeling like you have a bad life, because you really don't.
tsunpaper
I suppose.... I think it will take time for me to not be empty
leo_ss
It does take time, But what you get in the end is well worth your wait. Try to find a goal of some kind to give yourself a drive, Mine for instance is lifting weights. It'll help.
tsunpaper
Kinda hard when there is motivation for life (-_-)
leo_ss
There is a lot of motivation, nearly infinite if you look. My motivation for working out is to become strong, Why do I want to be strong? Many reasons, But the biggest reason is to be able to protect my present and future loved ones. I can't give you motivation, That is something you have to do yourself, But never believe there isn't anything for you there, As there is always something or someone, Even if you do not see it.
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