Do girl like soft/hard boys

I tend to get the hard guys that like me who are total assholes it's annoying

I'm pretty sure any female would like (platonic or otherwise) a male who is firm when the situation demands so and sensitive to her feelings i.e. it's always a mix of both; as to which has the higher emphasis is up to the couple to decide. These types of questions also beg the opposite (which merits the same response): Do boys like soft/hard girls?