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Bad Break Up.

jikokun
As long as there is sex, im down with the rebound. Besides, if you're that butthurt over a girl breaking up with you in a relitively short time frame (hence, the rebound), it's time to reevaluate yourself and get some help... or friends. Above was not directed to OP, but in response to the rebound
jas
jas @jas commented on Bad Break Up.
Nov 28, 14 at 4:34pm
Well, knowing you're the rebound guy means you can adjust your expectations properly. So, yeah. If you know it's going to be short term because they'll go back then I can see being equally shallow. The lady the OP talked about obviously pulled the rug out from under him. Not cool.
key17
Key @key17 commented on Bad Break Up.
Nov 29, 14 at 4:53am
Fuck being 2nd plate. Not even for sex.
goku187
Sometimes people form a dependency on rebound sex. And then it doesn't get pretty.
jikokun
People shouldn't be getting so attached to somebody in such a short time anyway to worry about being a rebound.. Is they do, they need some help
untitled
Nov 29, 14 at 7:20pm
that's rough bro but I guess trying to condense what I wanna say into one post~ I'm not gonna say you can do better or she wasn't worth it because that would just be an insult towards the feelings you had for that person. Everything happens for a reason, people would end up screwing you over or leaving you behind over dumb stuff~ it's gonna hurt a lot, I know because I've been there. but you're still young "i assume" and you just gotta keep moving forward but also ask yourself the big questions "who are you now" after a break up, anything you thought you knew about yourself~ about life ain't gonna feel the same to you because now you feel that hurt all over and nothing's gonna feel alright o.o you need to reevaluate yourself but when you do~ "simplicity" in re defining who you are is the best way to go.. it's the wisest thing you can do to get back up on your feet and over time you'll start to see that you've become a deeper, wiser, stronger person when you make it simple but profound and this advice is what helped me realize a lot of things about myself~ I'm still discovering myself little by little and I admit I've been in love before and hurt brutally over and over again but whatever decision those people made "ain't my problem anymore" if she decided someone else is better than me "even if it's my best friend" whatever they do isn't my business and just let it go. the more you think about why this or why that~ it's just gonna make you crazy and none of that is really worth it "the drama, the confusion, the games" just cheer up ^ ^ talk to someone, take time to release those pent up emotions "safely" or as wkuk likes to say... "say it happier, but with your mouth open!" I hope ya read this, because... this needs to be said o 3o https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwjmUWh-ymo
oxac3xo
Jun 14, 15 at 10:26pm
It's been awhile but thanks guys. ;A;
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