Plus Size Looking For Relationship Thread.

I've been fat all of my life and for some reason it really ticks me when people use fat as part of their identity Just sayin'

I'm big and tall, 5ft 8in but my last doctor's appointment (2 weeks ago) I lost 40 pounds and counting. Anyway! There are factors that make a person gain weight like thyroid (which my doc says is a likely culprit in my case) and other underlying conditions. Those of you that are throwing judgment towards plus-sized women. You don't know anything about plus-sized women, and if you can't appreciate them, then fine, but this was a post from a plus sized girl looking for someone that does appreciate plus-sized women, so that isn't you! She didn't state wishing to be another size, she's heard your suggestions all her life, likely! Just leave her be if you don't like overweight people! If you want a skinny girl then go look for a skinny girl and let her live her life. Seriously.

@cat, I'm sorry if I did offend you but I never said anything bad to overweight. I'm not a stereotype either since is already proven that obesity did have health issue. I think they are attractive too but just because they are obese, we cannot tell them is alright if you are obese, we love the way you are. Preventing the problem instead of encouraging them to accept being fat. Maybe I wasn't clear about being injure part, sometimes they can really hurt their partner by accident, like hugging or you know what couple does. And I never stated they cannot be in a relationship, I never judge their look. I only said they should take care of themselves because their partner will be the one that worry. I don't like when people put words in my mouth when I didn't say it or anything bad about it. Either you rephrase it wrong or don't get my intention. All I did is saying that they should take care of their health not in a mean way but genuine way. You got every reason to hate me but please don't say I say this and try to hyperbole my words.

Animefood. I am going to be completely honest with you... Brutally so. But, the more you try to explain and continue on... the more you look like an idiot. It's best to just stop at this point, whether you are right or wrong, you're just making yourself look stupid...

Animefood, As for the "being injured" part... Clearly you're doing it wrong. ;) The parts still fit and the hugs and sex are still good. I wonder, what things do you do that are hazardous to your health? I mean, everyone does or eats things that may kill them. If you're concerned for the well fair of others, why not do something proactive aside from preaching to the choir? I get it, you have a preference and that's perfectly fine.

@missallyesterday, thanks for your honesty but I don't like when I did not say this and I get accused of. My english professor always tell me to stay close to the text. I never offend anyone but I'm okay I just unhappy about people don't want to accept it. Is for their well-being, maybe I'm a little overboard. I'm not going to say anymore since I'm too tire of giving advice and nobody appreciate it.

I made a post, if you want to share healthy advice you can come on over to it and share. :) It'll be a thread where your advice is appreciated.