Plus Size Looking For Relationship Thread.

Thanks guys ; 7 ; And OH SNAP THERE IS ONE ALREADY o-o But its for everyone..EEEEHH Well I guess I'll just change this thread.. xD;

I have problem with overweight, not to detest them. The reasons are not about me is about the partner you plan to be with. Think of it you got a obese lover, you wouldn't want to be squash or receive a injury relate to physical act. Another is the partner need to go on diet because for health sake. I doubt anyone want their lover get diabetes or any sickness because is sad to see it. An example would be smoking, don't want to see their love one smoking poison. I hope people who are obesity understand the need on diet. Stop eating too many junk food, start to care about yourself more. You can eat but being gluttony is a hazard to your health. Look at the consumption of calories and try to stay away fatty food. I know is hard to resist temptation but is for your best. I too, love food a lot and I gained some pound in my belly, I resist junk food only allow myself once a week and planning to do more after the school year over.

Animefood, People already understand these things, it's kind of like you're repremending them. It's a bit more complex for some than just do this or that. Sure, you should want to care about yourself, but everyone wants love too.

@yaasshat, some know it but they don't really care or just don't want to face it. I don't want them to regret in their later lives as they age on.

I see what you're trying to say, but consider this: should they be denied a relationship just because they aren't in great shape? Maybe I misunderstood you, but thats exactly what it sounds like to me. Getting in shape is by no means an easy ordeal, and for those currently trying, should they be forced to wait months on end, or years even, before they can have a partner when they're finally in shape? Sure, many people arent attracted to plus size people. They don't have to date plus size people. There's plenty more out there that don't really care about that. I'm a firm believer in self improvement, which got me into some trouble here before, but I also believe it's a choice and a life-long work in progress. If somebody wants to get in shape, awesome. If not, its not like they have to. Sure there may be health concerns involved, but there are plenty more dangerous things you can do that no one bats an eye about. There's a real chance you could die at any moment just getting into your car and driving to work. Hell, I've had some very close encounters from that very thing a few times even driving safely. As have many people I know. Most of us here are adults, or close to it, so by now we all know the consequences of our actions. We're all taking risks. As long as we are willing to own up to the consequences I don't think it's that big of a deal. As long as people are happy, thats the important thing. We can all work on what we feel are our shortcomings as we go. Believe me when I tell you that no one will ever get anywhere if they wait until they're perfect to go after the things they want. I know this first hand. -- I realize that was kind of long, so... TL;DR: nobody cares. Let's let everyone be happy without attacking the self esteem of others.

Just stop it Animefood. You are over thinking it way too much. Wtf Squash someone really? What do you think I'm talking about being like 500 Pounds or something? One can be plus size and healthy. I AM. I have no problems at all and I won't because I don't over eat so much fat foods, I take care of myself in what I eat and I eat normally. My body shape is big boned anyway. And I don't have diabetes in my blood neither do I eat so much sugar. And I WATCH my calories like anyone should, FAT or skinny. Your just stereotypical of plus size people, Just stop it. It makes you look shallow. They could always loose weight anyway, Weight isn't an issue it can be lost! Are you trying to say someone doesn't deserve to be a potential partner or in a relationship just cause there overweight? That is really shallow. .-.