Porn In A Relationship

In a college class in Philosophy (morals and ethics), a women told the class she has life experience which seems to suggest that porn can destroy a relationship. That got me to thinking should porn exist in a relationship? Can it destroy a relationship?

Well thats the thing its one individual experience, although there is not much into this question, I dont think as a whole porn will damage the relationship. Unless that person makes the choice to consider porn over the person they are in a relationship with. Porn should be allowed to a relationship in my view though. If we make rules for everything such as that we take away the freedom of certain aspects of the relationship. Not to mention porn is a good escape when you are feeling sexually fustrated or your partner is unable to provide at the moment. It can also be implemented into the relationship as foreplay and whatnot depending on the situation. But thats my view.

Porn don't destroy a relationship, lack of communication do. If everyone involved knows why something happens, no one should make any assumptions.

I could see jealousy coming out of such a thing, especially if one person or the other in the relationship isn't comfortable watching it. It's probably why it's important when your relationship gets to the point of being more intimate you should really have a conversation and understanding what each party is comfortable with.

Agreed, on that cecil to find out where you are at in it. If both parties are comfortable with it then by all means allow it. If one feels more or less unhappy due to their partner watching it then discuss ways on how you in the relationship can help give them sexual release they obtain from porn or work out some solution to keep both of you happy if all possible. If you feel that strongly about it, just remember that when a person is using porn as a sexual release it does not necessarily mean that they value it over you.

Porn.. could be wonderfull. if she really love you, why is so hard to play together, or find something that fits both of you? But secrets destroy relationship. Imagine if someone keep building up secrets about how they feel about you to everyone else but you. If they keep telling to others about your inclinations and how disgusting it is but never to you. If they never tell you face to face for years that they had the same inclinations. It actually hurts to talk about this.

In a relationship I'm only interested in porn as a mutual thing or if my sex drive is greater than hers and I need an outlet. Otherwise it doesn't interest me much except when I'm single.

I think there is nothing wrong with guys watching porn because their girlfriend cannot satisfy their sexual urge. I doubt any guy prefer porn over their girlfriend. Besides, it make the guy happier after they done jerking so girls should be happy about guys not seeing them as an object.

I don't care if my s/o watches porn. Hell I might watch it with them. But this is something that I think does need to be talked about by a couple when they reach that area