How do you cope with being cheated on?

I think @whitewolf has a pretty good outlook on it. I dunno, not that I condone cheating by any means, but I think it's worthwhile to kinda retrospect about what caused a relationship to go bad like that. Did my significant other change? Did I change? What happened so that our relationship needs stopped being fulfilled? kind of thing. Not that it'll help a relationship that's already in the outs but as lessons for the future. Not every relationship works, but I think even the failed ones help us grow as people.

Yup, it sure sucks being cheated on. In all my relationships I unfortunately have been cheated on; or would have been. I've posted a long and detailed story about it before in another thread so I don't want to have to repeat the same story over and over. For me, best thing to do is except it and go on with your life. I find it to best forget about it. I've always deleted past emails, voice mails, texts, and pics. Thrown away things that belonged to them that they didn't take; anything that would remind me of them. Just last night I went through an old external HDD that I've haven't touched in a long time. Found intimate pics/vids of us that we took. Ugg... didn't need to see that. DELETE! However I have to admit each time it happens to me I feel more reluctant to date or be in another relationship. I'm tired of the games and the same pain over and over. Every time it changes me. But you don't want to end up miserable like myself; It's not worth it. Let it go and move on. It's cliche but tomorrow's another day.

I got two relationship but both dumped me. One I really love a lot and the other one iust average. The one I love I knew her since elementary school almost consider childhood friend. I was surprise I met her in high school and started dated as she proposed to me. I never had sex with her because she afraid to get pregnant so I respected her. We dated about 10 years and she cheated on me with some guy she met in college. She even did sex with him, which I felt really hurt. After her ex beat her up, she came crawl back to me. I gave her another chance but got disappointed in the end. My 2nd gf I ask her out, we only had a relationship for 3 months and she got fed up on me when she talk about my ex I told her I don't want to say it. She also afraid her mom so she decided to break up with me. I had no friend to rely on because they may seem to be but in the surface. Even til now, I still think about her my first girl. Even though I hated her, deep in my conscious still think about her. I sometimes look at the picture we took but happiness over in a second. I was so scared when I lose her, but the pain feel so real. I'm not sure how much you love him, but you should move on. I always try to find something to do to get my mind occupy by not thinking.

there is only one way to fix it #Suicide

The only relationship I've had so far was with someone that that cheated on me and used me! The only difference is that it wasn't long distance The way I got over it was that I spent lots of time with my friends and did things that I enjoy. It wasn't easy but I did it and I'm much happier than I was! :3