Things like "I had one, but I pretend I didn't" or "Never had one real, just a short relationship" or "Never had one, just a little hookup" don't count, it has to be NEVER HAVING ONE AT ALL!!!
Don't coddle him... Dude, stop with these pity me threads. As I said before , get some confidence or fake it until you make it. I don't care if you're a virgin or not, had a relationship or not, shy or not, recluse or not... Just stop shooting yourself in the foot with threads like this. I don't pity so much as feel sorry for you each time I see you post a thread like this. Getting a relationship is no great or hard thing, but if you come off as feeling sorry for yourself then you'll never find a relationship or at least one that's worth being in . Just start talking to women on here and around where you live. Start off looking for a friend and then see where that goes, but never just start asking if they care that you've never had a relationship , car or sex... Just be you and stop worrying so damned much. Failure will happen , from time to time, but don't fail before you've even given yourself a chance.
I'm 29 and never had one :(
That's not meant to be rude, btw