why is it so hard finding girls on here?

Why? The answer is 42. Why? Because girls are here to make friends. If they say otherwise, dont fall for it! </sarcasm>

Any dating site is going to be about a 2 to 1 guy to girl ratio. The only places I usually see about an equal amount of guys and girls are at conventions. Unless you live in a rather populous state/urban area or don't mind an LDR, your chances of finding a relationship on this site is kinda slim.

Cause most girls sometime are afraid to meet or date stranger from online, but I think is depend on the girl if they trust you enough to actually approve to date you online or not or so?? I dunno. It's seem like it to me thought. I'm mostly afraid to trust a stranger to date online, If I ever did, you don't even know if the person on the photo he send you is actually him or not? You know what I mean?

Heres the thing though, of course you can tell that the ratio of girls to guys here is quite unbalanced however, this is not a problem that effects this site specifically. It effects pretty much any dating site although some have better chances due to increased numbers of users that are girls but thats all. I am going to give you some advice though, if you go into this site expecting to find somebody the chances are you wont, there are some on here and I do mean a few that have found people on here but for the most part they either won by the numbers game or they drew somebodies interest on the forums. So in that regards just treat this site like a social site and put a little effort into finding somebody on here, spending all your time finding somebody on here though would not net anything much so why not use that time to focus on yourself or go out to other sites/ social networks meet people. Or if you are not shy why not try forming a little interest group in your area if you can find some people.

I suppose its frightening on both sides to meet with someone completely unknown. But, that being said, it is also critical to try. Clearly everyone joined a social site such as this to meet people, so now the next step would be to take a chance and meet in a public place, no different than if that was were you met.also important to keep in mind that at any point you can kindly decline to continue seeing that person because you don't really owe them anything.or perhaps from it could come a good friendship.who knows.