What are you looking for?
ElderEmoJen @missallyesterday
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ElderEmoJen @missallyesterday
@Kichigai Cause I hate reading what you all don't like, and what I don't like is totally different so then I'm just like, "What the *bleep* do I care anymore?" Don't get me wrong, I do have superficial things I'd like too, but look; this is an anime otaku website. I got low expectations. If you found me what would you do? lol
Anyway, it's cool if you want different things, this is kind of why I made this, cause I want to see what people are looking for rather than what they aren't people are more comfortable reading the positives. At least I am.
Speaking only for myself I've got photos of myself, and I have cosplay photos, and I don't care if you think I'm ugly or fat, stuck up either cause you don't really know me. You didn't say you thought I was ugly of stuck up, or that you knew me or even wanted to, but all I can say is "DGAF." If I cared about what a person I don't even know that doesn't even know me thought about me I'd extremely miserable.
I think most people while if you look good it makes it easier to approach a person. However, if you like a person because they look good and they tell you off are you going to still try and pursue and continue to be abused? If you are that kind of person, I say don't waste your time! lol
Real world tip: Most females don't like when you talk about how they look especially if you don't know them. :)
Not only does a compliment on their looks come off as weird, even creepy depending on what it is, but also you're coming off as a superficial prick and that is undesirable.
Good luck.
@Jean Of course photos of a person would be great, right? A lot of people are insecure about their looks, and they aren't always women that do this. I've seen some guys do the same.
Dr. Kichigai Seuss @kichigai913
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Dr. Kichigai Seuss @kichigai913
You, personally, may not GAF. You're one of the few. a LOT of other people, both guys & girls do on this site.
I don't even pretend to talk to people who don't have a pic of themselves on their page. Having a cosplay is fine, that's actually a bonus. But when you have all these pics of anime people who you look nothing alike all over your page you are screaming, at least to me, that you're fat/ugly/hideous and you want me to treat you like a human being? I don't even know if you're really a person or not. And to the contrary, girls love when you talk about how they look if it's in a positive & respectable light. If not, why would girls cosplay? Why would they wear make-up & what not? They love to hear that the effort they made to look good paid off. The girls that bitch about men are usually the ones that are either ugly/fat or extremely hot. I personally have yet to hear a woman tell me when I compliment them that they didn't like it or act scared or call me creepy. You know what's creepy? talking to a picture of Holo the wise wolf for a month believing that the person actually looks like Holo.
Dr. Kichigai Seuss @kichigai913
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Dr. Kichigai Seuss @kichigai913
You don't want men to howl at you cause you're hot? Don't look like a fucking slut. You want men to not call you fat? lose weight.
I don't like it when people call me skinny. Know what I've been doing? Hitting the gym. Getting my sexy on. I like to at least look healthy.
noodle_mutou @noodle_mutou
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noodle_mutou @noodle_mutou
I'm happy to wait for the right person. I think I'll know when they're the one. Until then I'm happy to just meet lots of new people and get to know them :)
Erranty @erranty
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Erranty @erranty
Someone who I click with.
I already know a girl like that, she's not into anime or games, but she's responsible, nice, totally my type, intelligent, and not all that dramatic.
Thing is, while I'm attracted to her, I know I'm not in love with her. She's also exclusively into black guys, so it doesn't make a difference either way.
But, she's the kind of person I want. Just gotta find someone like her that I can fall in love with.
Whitewolf @whitewolf_3
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Whitewolf @whitewolf_3
In a nutshell, a sincere relationship
Nelsito @nelson
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Nelsito @nelson
I used to be okay by myself, but everyone around me is with somebody and I'm like "Stawp it" ;-; I would be more happy if I had someone to share the same interests and to spend time with, watching anime and/or play games and all that fun stuff. Someone that I can talk with all my heart and feel comfortable. Someone who has at least a goal in their life like myself, it's going to take some time of course.
I try not to be picky on how I want a girl to look for myself, and not judge people by their appearances. I mostly care more about their characteristics. If they are like me, I'm sure we can get along just fine. If you look "hot" or "sexy" but have a bad characteristics, I'll just go ahead and say f*** you and bye-bye with all my heart because it's never going to happen.
But of course, in my case, I'm shy... REALLY shy. And I'm really bad at making a conversation. If it's going well, I can go from shy to a serious person, and then to a crazy person saying random stuff, if we're getting along really well, you have to know how I truly am. Mostly because I don't really talk with people much (you could say I'm anti-social, which I'm not), and if I do, I'll just say a few words and try not to get involved. I truly enjoy being alone sometimes.
Right now, I'm really insecure of myself because of the most famous diseases, it's acne. I have acne on my face (mostly cheeks) and it's just really frustrating, I mostly spend my time stuck in my house because of how I look and I talk less to people. I try to get over it but it's hard.
And... I don't know what else to add. I could but, I can't think of anything else right now.
ritsuioko23 @ritsuioko23
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ritsuioko23 @ritsuioko23
I want someone I can spend time with and laugh with, but more than a friend I guess. They have to be someone I can trust with my life too... idk
LilyBunMoon @chocominttea
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LilyBunMoon @chocominttea
Theres alot I would like in people, but I don't want reveal too much. My biggest thing is that I want people to respect me as an equal. I hate being coddled as a dainty, fragile, little girl. I want people to see me as a responsible individual who can handle most things on her own. I expect the same from others.
Yu @metaljester
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Yu @metaljester
Hmm might as well,
Things that are important as follows.
Please be human,Despite those sci fy games and movies giving us the impression that aliens are almost always compatible I would rather not... I dont want to come in on you and find out that you are a klingon or a wookie both are pretty territorial and aggressive, even though I know the klingon language I would rather not have to go through the initiation rituals of either to start a romance... Perfect time to reference this even though it has barely anything to do with it besides the be human part..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhVfVHln9FE
Please be Real, I know spam gives us the luxury of a very determined listener but as much as spam is friendly it just does not like to add any substance to the conversation
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