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I'm surprised I'm still single ;-;

junkosan209
So I'm a loli cat girl and I've been single for 4 years... But since I'm a loli I follow Japanese dating laws. (so pretty much any age of dating) I feel like I'm like then air to guys cause they never notice me T^T Is there any tips I can get for guys to notice me or even ask me out? *hugs my body pillow and smashes my face into it* >~<
nuro0o
Well arn't you still 15 years old? Still pretty young if you ask me. Well there are enough boys on this site, good luck ^^
watchfulguardian
Don't worry too much about, Blake. It's not your fault at all, it's just that the vast majority of Americans have a very different view on dating customs based on US laws compared to Japanese dating laws. While it isn't illegal to date a minor, it's still heavily frowned upon and people tend to believe there is always something illegal going on between the adult and the minor. Even if you and others believe in Japanese dating laws, that doesn't change the fact that those laws don't count here in America. Don't worry about it too much though. One day someone is bound to hit you up, whether it being now or in the years to come. Again, it isn't a problem with you, it's the country where we live in.
vampire_neko
I'm curious about Japanese dating laws. But anyway, my rules for example, since I'm older anyway: I don't care about age (to a point) if there is a certain level of maturity. But I pretty much require a dating partner to be 18+ except under exceptional circumstances including: 1.They are exceptionally mature and intelligent. 2. They are above the age of consent in that state (16 or older) 3. Their parents are OK with it. But I haven't considered dating anyone under 18 in over a decade. Though my last gf was 18 when we started dating about 5yrs ago. Generally I look for about mid twenties on up anymore. Not much luck lately though. Once you get over 20 yrs the available dating pool diminishes rapidly, and even more so if you are into unusual interests, like anime.
oreo717
if they dont make the first move then you do it, let them know you are interested
seijiro
I feel the same way only I know my reason for being single and its a sad one. I can't 100% say what will make you be noticed more because I really don't know what made me notice/like other girls but I do know that they stood out from the crowd more whether it was that they dressed as, what they said, or their "open hobbies" you could call it that were similar to mine, I guess in short you just don't follow the crowd. I could ask those friends of mine what they would do to be noticed they would probably do a better job of explaining than I could.
jineko
In japan the girl is the first one to make the move. SO IF YOU FOLLOW JAPAN GO DO THAT. no offense but dafuq is a loli cat girl anyway? D:
jineko
Also, if you're really just 15 why not focus on your studies and what you plan to do in life instead of getting a boyfriend and potentially ruining your future(getting pregnant or whatever).
junkosan209
I'm trying to get my mind off depression... I've tried everything but no luck. Plus I really need to stop doing self harm to myself.
jineko
Go out and have fun! Life is beautiful. And you're young and pretty too with fully functioning body parts. Guys might just take advantage of you. In fact, guys might even bring in more depression. Why not hang out with friends outside? orrr discover a new hobby that's fun. Maybe then your sempai would notice you because of your extremely happy aura. :)) Law of attraction(staying positive brings in positive things!).
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