Males of this site you disappoint me

Exactly, Robot Nyan. There is nothing wrong with being honest and straitforward, as long you use proper manners(or at least the best effort you can put in). I guess you could compare it to a job interview, sometimes, but I believe that some people might prefer to approached in different ways. Still, persistance towards one person is something I don't believe I would advise. If the other person does not show interest in the one who is offering, then I think the one who showed interest should respect the other person and go on their way and on to another possible choice. That seems simple enough, to me. Still, this is merely a suggestion. I'm not any kind of master of dating, or whatever.

Fact is most of us have no idea how to chat people up lol. At the end of the day you just have to be polite and hope the person responds, it also wouldn't hurt to respond no thank you so that the person showing an interest knows you're not interested. So I would advise that you only label people "genuine creepers" when the only response you get is "Wanna cyber?" those, my friend, are the creeps.

I have not been on this site in a while, I still do try to get on when ever i can though. The best way to meet people is to ask them for a different form of communication. I also rely on my Iphone for all my tweets,status upates ect. So if someone asks its because they know this site can be pretty slow.

I really dislike it when it comes down to name-calling. Find something else better to do than to dis other people and piss people off. If you are not satisfied with the site, then you are welcome to leave. You are not trapped here, although I'm sure a creeper would like to tie you up and take you out to dinner. They like meat.

As many have stated being on this site denotes that due to our interest in Anime/Manga we are seen as "odd" by the general public. having this stigmata upon them already some guys might not know how to handle interaction with the other sex in person as their only outlet would be online and as stated by anarque this site is not as "friendly" for constant interaction as the large networking sites. It is very harsh to say that every man on this site is a creeper, true there might be a few socially challenged individuals and those few will spoil it for the rest, it is up to the nice guys to prove our worth out there and for the ladies that decide to date from this site as from any other dating site; they will need to weight every man for their worth and use their better judgement to weed out the bad ones. Just as my Squirrel did ^.^ . End of Rant.

@Clyzard- (applause) You just said what I was thinking. I hope I can find an enlightened girl on this site who doesn't judge men unfairly. I wish you and Squirrel all the best.

I say your more the creepy one, people deal with things in different ways whos to say yours is the right one? I just today signed up for the site and find a guy saying something like this, its like wow, some douche being judgmental when he doesn't even know the people, just to make himself feel *sympathetic* to some woman, I find that the saddest of all but as I said everyone does things their own way.