does everyone friendzone??

I've done the tinychat, the messages, the forums, but to me this isnt a site for dating. Its more like a get together. I was hoping to find someone willing to be open for a relationship. What I'm finding is friends.. Everyone is friendzoned or i find that some people are taken on here!! I was really looking forward to find someone who loved anime as much as me.Someone who I could cuddle with and watch reruns of Cowboy bebop, trigun.. anything with. Clearly,I can see im not going to find love on this site.

It is disappointing. Ive also noticed that when a bunch of nerds get together they become very disrespectful and rude towards women on here. I donno what it is.

There will always be men like that... not everyone is cut from the same cloth. Gotta ignore those guys even though it may seem most of the time that there are more of them, than there are gentlemen. But I'm not sure how to spend personal messages to anyone, but you can add me and we can talk, if that's cool?

eh, true this is a dating site but some people use it like fb (which there's nothing with that). Like loli said patience, just continue what you're doing. Keep talking to people eventually you're bound to find someone. Also while there are some that are disrespectful towards women those are usually the people on this site who are just disrespectful in general towards people. Also as lolichan pointed out this is a site for nerds so saying "when a bunch of nerds get together" isn't exactly accurate in this case, you're clumping every member of this site together in that statement. A proper way of phrasing it would be when a bunch of thirsty guys get together they start making disrespectful & rude comments towards women.

lmfao you want us to be more open? ight I see how it is, DATE ME SOUTHERN!!!! how was that?

LOL thirsty. Well I'm generally a jerk that's just my personality but I am really a nice and caring person, also a bit of a romanticist, which is why I've only been in long-term relationships (just got out of a 7yr relationship). When you're just hanging around the guys though that's just how it is, it wasn't like everyone was trying to be disrespectful, certain words or actions just come off that way and aren't meant to be offensive although they probably are. It has nothing to do with tastes or being a nerd it's just how most guys are and there are people who can say this or that blah blah those guys just don't know how to treat a woman or whatever but honestly take that hypocritical trying to make yourself look good shit somewhere else because nobody is sipping that kool-aid. Onto the dating portion, obviously it's pretty hard to find someone in general let alone on this site where a lot of people actually do have a significant other or live too far for anything to actually happen. That's just life though, you can't just come onto the site and expect to find your soulmate right away no matter how much people wish it were that easy. I guarantee there are plenty of guys here that will message you and are interested in dating but at the end of the day you decide who's right or wrong, who meets your criteria, tastes, standards, etc. so you can't completely put the blame on the site or people looking for friends. Who said being friends before dating was such a bad thing anyway. Well either way things take time, can't rush something so complicated like love just because of your desire to find that person.