I feel insulted...

Um... It's easy to figure out. But, who cares?

Waah, I hadn't expected the topic to blow up all of a sudden. You guys made me feel a lot better. I was so focused on trying to figure out what was wrong with me that I didn't stop to think that maybe it wasn't actually anything I said or did. You're all sweet to meeee. ( ´͈ ɜ `͈ )

OP if you are still looking at this thread be prepared for a lot more of the same. It just comes with dating. Men wont spend that much effort on someone they dont fancy. Men are capable of making friends first then moving from there but on a dating site theres already a pretense for dating. So in a place like this especially you'll get approached simply because you are avaiable and may find you attractive not because someone wants to know you first. Getting to know you comes latter because in a dating pool its far more effective to catch and release rather than look closely, because of the risk that if nobody takes this girl or tries anything someone else will come by. As much as guys will not admit to it and as much as others like to sugarcoat it, this is all understood subconsiously by guys(and girls if they are put in a similar situation with a scarcity of guys). If you find that disagreeabale i dont blame you, but theres never any bad intent in guys acting this way. Its just natural.

Oh and i forgot to say, you were most definitely judged for something. What that is im not going to venture a guess. But the best advice is to not take it personally because its gonna happen a lot and its unavoidable. Such is life.

@Rou I can understand that! Because I feel that way, too. If I see someone I like the first thought it, "Oh.. Maybe I should try and grab them before someone else." But I wasn't sure if I should have felt bad for that or not... ( ´͈ ⌓ `͈ )

@Jikoshy...I'm dissullusioned now (and I don't think I can spell wither o.O)...I thought you were a real pony too :( @Rori-Hime don't be sad about what happened, unfortunately there are people out there who, once they see you for who you really are, they're just not interested (happened to me me too) But do not fret; there will always be real people out there - as everyone has said above - that wants to know you for you and don't have any qualms about what you look like or who you are. If I looked like my avatar I think I would freak more people out than the ones I freak out looking like myself lol!