Hey girls, what do you really want?

@xueli Metasynth is right about one thing however, that women dont need men in the same ways they used to. (i personally think this is a good thing though, just making sure you understand i dont mean to imply the opposite) This naturally creates a situation in which women's standards in men can shift to different things or just get higher. So the rest of you that say money, power, etc all the things you think makes an alpha male, whats the point behind all that? To be prepared for anything and to be competent (which also means being able to cater to whatever need they may have of you however minuscule and reduced that need is(and yes that includes the empathy)). That's what women really want but you guys only concentrate on the characteristics you can see as opposed to WHY women care about them. So while some women may care about money and power you all need to realize that their standards can change to a different set of characteristics. These characteristics can be different but they all point to competency in some way. And lets not lie to ourselves, looks is always a (big)part of it because we all have some degree of control over that. Effort put in always shows competence and is naturally attractive.