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The title is to get people to click it....it worked didn't it :P?
Well im going back out with my ex....for the 6th time....
after dating on and off for years we're again back together
anyone else experienced this? is it bad?
did it end well for you?
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Hmm this all depends if there is a cycle so to speak. For instance lets make a example I have seen this once where the person you like will keep abandoning you then expect you to come back. I don't know what happened but if their is no connection or you are doing it because you feel sorry for him then I would stop. It all depends on the matter though. So far I don't know enough to give you a good answer.
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I was friends with a girl that I tried to date after she said she loved me (long story, she moved away and a couple years later I moved to be with her). Well anyway, she got back with her ex 2 weeks after I moved to be with her and they broke up and got back together 11 times just over the whole summer (I counted). I think their issue was a compound of smaller problems. She wasn't very emotionally stable, compounded by coke addiction. They both cheated on each other constantly (well, I know she cheated constantly and I heard he did). But I don't know all the details. I get the impression that their relationship was based more on sex than anything. Whenever she talked about him, she hardly ever talked about anything other than his big dick and referring to him being hung like a black guy. They broke up permanently not long after but stayed friends.
I don't have much personal experience other than one ex wanting to get back with me. Most of my ex's have no interest in used goods that they have had before (Sometimes I feel like more like a girl than a guy in many of my relationships).
My younger guy friends back in the day were good at getting girls obsessed with them through sex, usually by taking their virginity. I never got the hang of that because I never used sex that way, it always seemed demeaning. I was jealous of the attention they got but hated the callous indifference they treated the girls with because it damaged girls ability to have healthy relationships for awhile and their view of men which makes it more difficult for guys who are serious about a relationship.
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personally, I think people who break up shouldn't get back together, especially if it's been multiple times, it's a break up for a reason usually.
Unless it wasn't a bad breakup, like taking time off due to family issues or such, not a problem with the person(s), then I'm alright with that.
I just don't like the idea of the same people constantly hurting you, or you going baxk to be hurt
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There are many variable and depends on the people and reasons for breaking up. It's up to you if you are willing to share some of those reasons? Otherwise it would be hard to give advice.
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I mean, so long as you don't feel used I think it's okay. I don't know the circumstances of your breaking up each time, but they shouldn't just date you because it's convenient. You don't have to follow what "normal" relationships are like, so you can make up your own rules, so long as you don't think it'll hurt. Best of luck, mate.
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For me, once it is over, it is over. I don't do the "friends" thing or the "get back together later" thing. For me, and this is just how I am, if I we are at a point that we are breaking up, I can't ever see myself wanting to be back with you again. Good luck to you though, just don't let them use you.
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Lol 6 times?
Should have gotten the message the third time. Same problem all my female friends have. Stop.Going.Back.Out.With.The.Mother.Fucker. If it didnt work the first time, or the second, or the third, what makes you think it ever will.
God daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaammmmmmmmmmnnnnnnnnnnnn, then they come crying and bitching about how all guys are horrible and how they will never find a guy. So I have to sit there and listen cause they're my friends and I love ehm. But FUCK MY LIFE D:
But anyways, maybe thats not you, maybe you WILL get lucky and this 6TH time will be THE time that it DOES work. You never know. Do whatever you want, but if you have a best friend that you go to with your problems. Please spare them.
P.S The title worked hahaha totally got me in here xD
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