Is weight an issue?

I'm a kind of a weird person like, the only one I fat-shame is myself and when I see someone at my range of fat or fatter I feel bad for myself because I've been "trying" for years to lose weight but due to X or Y reasons I haven't even started properly, or when I begin I drop it quickly. I mean, there's a range I can like (I even consider some chubby women to be cute) but beyond that I get "triggered" and back the fuck up. Kinda hard to explain lol

I don't date fat chicks. Period. I also don't date anorexic chicks either. You have to be healthy. Whether that means you're toned, in shape or average or skinny or thick is fine. But you gotta be healthy.

Yeah if she weighs more than me then it's a no go. Also if she looks like she hasn't eaten for a 2 weeks I will feed her then see how it goes XD

I prefer average but I don't think I'd care if she's chubby. Fatter would be a problem. Skinny would be ok if it's how your body is shaped. It's about health issues. Same if we're talking muscles. I'm open as a friend, but a relationship is a lot more involved, both physically and mentally.

If she confuses "Obese" with "Curvy" then that's a definite no. And if walking winds her... You get the idea. I can't go out with someone who doesn't care about their own well-being. I think a mirror is a more effective tool than a scale any day. A scale offers limitation. A mirror offers potential.

I've dated all sizes in the past, all I can say is if she's little, hold her tight but not TOO tight; if she's big, it'd probably be better if she wasn't on top. lol If she's anywhere in between, go crazy; have at it!