girl i like is 4 years older then me

Don't listen to Arc, I say if you like someone, go for it It's better to go for it and get rejected, and be happy you actually did it, than never asking and always wondering "what if" If things don't work out, just beat her up in sparring :D Or if you want to make things awkward (if you get rejected) just tell her before a sparring match "By the way...I'm a masochist" But seriously, go for it, don't regret it

Here is the deal she most likely wont be interested in you. But if you don't try you will regret it later. Don't worry about it being awkward it will only be if you make it so. Trust me even if she is not into you she will still think it's cute that you like her.

As he said. But in all fairness, you should get the hint If she is in to you or not after a little bit of hanging out.

Age doesnt matter unless the girls like 14 and youre 20+ But if YOU are the young one bro go for it

My ex was 3 year older than me, so I say go for it. But I think you have to see if she have an interest in you or not. Before I asked my ex out, we knew each other for a year already and she always liked and commented on my fb wall so I got the hints.

I've dated women 8 years older than myself. She has a couple of kids and has been married before. I noticed no difference except how independent she is compared to women in their earl 20's. Age should never be an issue unless you are under the age of consent. If you encounter a woman you like act the same no matter how old the person is. If you mention interest in a relationship too early, you will scare them off.

Go for it, you've nothing to lose, just be yourself and be calm about it. I know it's hard but don't be nervous or anything and everything would be fine if she shows interest as well.