A Message to all the guys on MaiOtaku.

Bump. (And can you people please not derail the thread with your unrelated conversations?)

Holy shit I agree, Most of the males here are just a bunch of creepers..Shame to the male race. Not to mention why do they only go for the attractive females, I mean there are plenty of girls out there who are decent in appearance yet treated like they are invisible or something? I hate that as well especially since no one even looks at a girl who is less attractive or overweight or anything and they are probably really nice women with great hearts, Who your missing out on, WHO Your desperate pathetic ass could of had a chance of being loved but instead you do the opposite and in the end your still just that desperate pathetic creep, single and unloved.

Well the same reason pretty girls don't go for ugly guys I mean they are not creeper but they are picky same with not so pretty girls high standard @jikokun I'm creeping on you

The topic isn't focussed on why those who are "less attractive" get no attention. But yes, this was one of the points brought up. It's focused on the animals who swarm people like a pack of coyotes. I'm tired of it, and it causes me, and various other members, to not bother contacting some of these people. Why? Because 10 hungry animals already swarmed her by being "friendly". Frankly, me and the normal people don't want to be part of that group. Everyone loses. The poor girl. The normal guys. Even the freaks who swarm these girls, lose.

Well that's why I don't really message girls until later on or don't even message at all I just tell them to join forums

To a certain degree its just guys trying their luck. Guy sees a girl he fancies and sees a chance, he goes for it. That's actually what I did, I was sifting through profiles and I saw a girl I liked, I left an engaging and flirty comment. Did I see that as wrong at the time? Nope not at all. Given how vague the subject matter is, probably the entire male population here is guilty of it at some point. What I'm trying to say is that nobody intends to come off as creepy or be the animals you're describing. It's a matter of perspective. I don't think there isn't a problem, I just think the nature of it is a bit different than what you think.

I think the problem is in society's over emphasis on getting a relationship. It conditions young men into subconsciously linking their social status and their manhood with how many girls they have and how pretty. As long a women remain a bargaining chip for perceived social power this will always happen. This is worsened by the fact that it's also just natural to a seek out the pretty ones (to some degree). The result is that almost every guy does this and doesn't even realize it or intends it because it's so deeply engrained.