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jikokun
I get transgender, But I never heard of gender fluid or agender. I'm assuming agender means one without gender, and fluid means changing? Because of this, I'm not exactly sure how I feel about it. Would I be accepting of a person like such, yes. Definitely. Would I date someone like that, I don't know. Honestly, I don't think so only because I am straight. While I'm not homophobic, I have no interest in males, so if and when they are such, I don't know how I'd feel about it. It's definitely something to think about, though.
miya
miya @miya commented on Genderqueer?
Apr 10, 14 at 2:53am
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jikokun
It's a difficult thing to wrap your head around, But not in a bad way. The real question here is if a (using me as an example) person born a girl came to me and said she was gender fluid, I, honestly would be ok with it. It would be along the lines of a tomboy, only to a higher degree. I couldn't date a transgender, no offence to them. Either way you look at it, I would be with a guy. The agender person would be a little more. .. confusing. I don't know to much about it, and I'm not really sure how to handle this without sounding ignorant, therefore I will abstain from commenting about agenders until I learn more about them.
isaacjoule
Apr 10, 14 at 10:14am
I'm a bit more traditional here. I feel that men should be men, women should be women. When a person says sometimes she feels like a guy sometimes she feels like a girl, I'll be honest: that makes no sense to me. I, personally, feel like me. I'm not sure I feel like a guy. I feel like me. I just happen to match the physical specs of a guy. I think I'd need to physically swap bodies with a woman in order to understand what it means to feel like a man or woman.
buji
Buji @buji commented on Genderqueer?
Apr 10, 14 at 1:45pm
Personally I'm fine with anything, I like people's personality mostly. I'd prefer knowing about this before I dated them but if I found out after then oh well. I've liked 2 trannies and dated 2 guys before. As long as I can get along with you and fall for you that's all that matters
miya
miya @miya commented on Genderqueer?
Apr 10, 14 at 2:26pm
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buji
Buji @buji commented on Genderqueer?
Apr 10, 14 at 2:58pm
Mhm, plus i dont like people being judged for being themselves. IMO the people you judge tend to be the best of people. I try to look at all sides of people too, good and bad. I'm happy with someone just the way they are and dont expect change. Humans are all the same: human. So yeah.
kodokunadoutei
@miya just out of curiosity when you are feeling masculine are you only attracted to women and when feeling feminine only attracted to men? or is the line blurred between the two or something?
miya
miya @miya commented on Genderqueer?
Apr 10, 14 at 3:24pm
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kodokunadoutei
@miya That sounds pretty much how most people are regardless of sexuality.
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