Does race matter to you?

@xueli I've been told that i act white... it's one of the most annoying thing someone can say. I feel like if i hang out with some of my black friends, I'm supposed to keep this image of a typical black guy. That's not me. I act properly because my spanish father and black mother raised me well. Being labled is something I have to constantly deal with. Outside of dating I don't have a problem with it, but today i received the "oh sorry you're a really cool guy and I love hanging out with you but i don't date black guys." Who knows maybe I'm not cut out for this dating thing.i have good friends and a supporting family so I'm content with them and wouldn't trade them for the world. Sorry I'll cut this short. It's just me typing while upset and i can vent on the net because this may not even be seen or cared about.

ehh just be laid back don't sweat the small stuff and be trust worthy and i'm good you can be black red white or blue idk if you cool we can work i'm a very flexible person

I'm generally good at being laid back. Just somethings I put a lot of effort into and getting shot down for something so petty. So I'll be upset for like another hour or so but eventually will move on in my life. The hunt continues my friend. One thing I've learned about dating is, you'll get rejected so don't be afraid of it, but cherish the one that says yes.

Race/gender/disability/sexuality(as long as we play for the same general team)/or any of that doesnt really matter to me at all. I will be honest and say I really do not like white libertarian dudes but other than that I don't care at all.

@sionxtc I hate that shit. Like what does acting white even mean? I remember I had this guy who is asian tell me that I didn't act like an asian woman because I wore jeans all the time, listened to rock, cursed, and was outspoken about my opinions, specifically because I'm a feminist.

For me actually, I prefer men outside of race as well. I am mainly attracted to men who are White or Asian. But let me tell how hard to is to meet Asian men who are into bigger women of color lol.

I honestly don't care. I don't think it's important, but because I speak Japanese I end up meeting either a lot of Japanese guys, or Americans that like anime. I believe just meeting someone that likes you and giving them a chance is good.