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xxsuperragexx
I am 24 years old, 5'8 and 142 lbs. I live with my folks because my job can't pay for shit. I go to college so I am almost done with it. I just want to find a girl for once that will like me back. I always get the number when I am talking to the girl that I like, but nothing good happens after that. I just wish that girls could stop saying that they want nice guys and then they ignore them for the douchebags. However, if I have to be alone then so be it. I'm tired of wasting my time and energy for things that don't work anymore.
animeboy
My this is turning into a trend isn't it? Just a fair warning, lotsa guys will barge in here with nonsense posts, and I'm pretty sure most girls will ignore this. Just giving you a heads up. But if a girl happens to post, she may want your picture.
xxsuperragexx
I won't be surprised, because this site is not good for anything to me anyway.
animeboy
^ don't be rude. He's new. @ xxsuperragexx I've been on this site since 2009 and found nothing. So just give you a heads up, the probability of finding someone is relatively slim.
bookwatcher
chuckles. I think all of us here have had those days where we cant figure out why we cant find some one, what we are doing wrong, and ust get bogged down by the negative. trick is not to wallow in it and push thru for another day.
xxsuperragexx
Well, I guess my day will never happen oh well,
toxicblue
Hmm, well, as i am not since 2009 of this site , joined yesterday... I am also 24 aside from my current status of single, i dont usually have a problem picking up a chick, my only thing has been being able to keep them due to distance or work related (military). Typically if you get a number its 1 of 2 things, A) they gave you a number thinking you'd use it, and or B) to get you off their back ... which sometimes can be a fake number. If you have the number, balls in your court, say something to lead them on, but dont tell them everything about you, nor do you ask them out right away. you'll want to bring up something casual, like a party you may have going on, or an even you might be going to, then, IF they show interest/ or try to relate, ask if they would like to join you. if no, because of busy/ or preplans , its ok, because now they know your interested for sure, but also know they have something they would like to do.// now if you dont have an event / money to go places and see an ideal date walking around in a park or chillin at your place (unlikely first date), you may want to just get to know them better, play 20 questions with them, and never fake your personality, the more open and confident you are, the more likely they will be the same, or they realize your not their type and it wasn't meant to be. Also keep an eye on your own figure, 5'8 140ish, isnt too bad, but i've seen some heavyset guys pock off some really great women simply because they had a likeable personality. look up Sex Appeal, there is lot of good advice through that. if your exercising and looking good to you youll likely be confident when talking to women... think about it, you gotta like you, if you want them to like you. at any rate, taking time off from your normal routine to work on what you really want to be can help improve your self esteem. Also as far as dating sites, I have used a few others, as to which this site seems more community minded rather than dating, to whereas i wouldnt mind finding a cute chick totally in to anime and video games to rock my world, ill most likely just meet many friends in the community and explore information on new upcoming animes and conventions. and you should always provide actual pictures of yourself. i mean you'd want the same from someone else right ? Point being, Confidence, Decision making, and making the choices that make you enjoy being you, will draw other to you. Good luck! and let me know if any of this helps
bookwatcher
@in the rain just gotta say wow. you chosen pic is one of the best ive seen on there. the glasses look is awesome. @xxxsuperragexxx theres always hope, on and off the net. chuckles. theres even more hope at conventions. you dont sound like a bad guy and going to college is always a plus. living with the parents isnt bad either these days. saves money.
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