Have you tried other dating sites?

Well wasn't facebook suppose to be a site where you hook up with university girls before it actually became facebook as we know it today lol? xD

Because we have to do all the work. We have to come up to women, talk to them, make them feel special, hell, that's hard nowadays you can't be original anymore. Not only that, I haven't found anyone out there to prove me wrong about women loving men who are still going to school, with a crappy job, and not a lot of money. Every time I want to talk to a gal it stays the same. Sure I get their number, but nothing else goes from there, and I'm tired of it. I'm tired of wasting my time on women who don't appreciate what I do. But I know that all of them are not bad, but I will start believing till I see it.

Maybe if you stop talking as though dating is a one way street where you do all the work, girls would think differently. Because you wanna know what? I've pursued every guy I've ever dated. Got called a whore and a slut a lot too. I've made my ex's feel special, because I care about them. And who cares about originality! It's all about if they put THOUGHT into it. I could care less if it's been done a thousand times before. As for going to school and having a shitty job while doing that? I COMMEND you to be able to do that. I payed for my ex instead of the other way around because I cared about him, and I wanted him to do well in school instead of focusing on paying for silly little dates. Dating isn't all about the guy taking charge and the girls sitting back.

Well, I am sorry for your past experiences and that is very shitty of them. Maybe you're right. See this is what I don't understand, women want confident men, but they want the dumb stupid ones (not all), and then they cry about not finding a great guy. I consider myself a very decent young man, I'm not perfect, but I'm not gonna treat you like shit just for you to like me that makes no sense to me. It also does not make sense to me that a girl date's a dumbass loser and knows that he sucks and wants to change him anyway. I may be getting older, but I wish to find someone that is only exist in dreams. I went to so many girls, try to be kind, quiet, talkative, everything, but it is still the same. Next thing you know they have two kids from that loser guy, and I won't bother fathering someone's child. I wish you luck, but I know that in this day love is rare, and I mean very rare. Like scarce.

You know, women don't have it easier than me and vice verse. A majority of the time, it's people being narrow minded about things. People often assume things before they really know the whole picture. It's not just about how women want confident people or how guy's want that hot girl. A vast percent of people are that way yes which is total bullshit. Presenting yourself is a big thing yes, but it's nothing if neither side will the bait. No ones perfect no, that's life. But people often belittle other to put them selves at higher standards. Being insecure is normal for a person to be believe it or not. No matter how confident you may be, you always have some type of doubt, it's just some people are more selfish about themselves than others, especially how the worlds is today. People don't like change, it takes them out of their comfort zone. If everyone care about everyone else and not themselves we wouldn't be where we are today now would we? Or people being heartbroken over cheaters and liars or trashy assholes that only think of themselves and how many girls or guys they can screw over. Besides, everyone will take advantage of someone at some point, whether they want to or not. It's all about how we can fix it and move on to keep everything together and to care for that person regardless of what happens.

Yeah that's what you say now, but I already know that I'm not a cheater and an asshole, but some girls prefer guys like that. I don't know why, but I get tired of hearing them whine about not finding the right guy, when the right guy was there in the first place. I see my friends, brother, and my parents still together and happy. I know it's not always butterflies and rainbows, but at least they have someone. I already know that I will be alone, because I cannot find anyone to prove me wrong. Guys are just horny all the f****** time and cheat, and women are just as the same as men. Oh well, I guess I know that I won't have to worry about std's, having a child with no money, and never getting ahead in life.