Have you tried other dating sites?

A femboy and trap dating site probably has the same femboy to male ratio problem as a normal dating site has with female to male ratio, imo.

I've tried Tinder, it's led to a few dates, but nothing really more than that. I've tried other dating sites too, but got annoyed with the amount of bots, so I just quit after awhile.

Here is my experience: Any dating sites with focus on multiple Asian regions mostly have too many Filipinos. DateInAsia is one example. JapanCupid might be difficult to message others, but TrueLoveJapan seems more strict without paid membership. OhMyJapan is more enjoyable, but your messages must have at least around 250-300 or more words, cannot be copy-pasted nor very similar to other sent messages, and you can only sent up to 2 messages a week. OkCupid seems like they make you think others you send messages to are only read, but sometimes don't really appear to receivers at all. I even had a friend I met before she saw me on there but messaging system didn't work properly. Tinder might be highly rated, but I lost interest in it in a flash. Match, eHarmony, POF and other leading ones don't seem helpful enough without paid membership while my father thinks it's a waste of money on any dating site membership. Some dating apps may overpack your device's internal storage and even if installed from any major app store, you could get hacked. My parents suggest the old-fashioned way of going to churches, bars, clubs, cafés or even conventions, but I fear my "chatterbox" or "walking encyclopedia" social behavior might cause women to even consider that a sexual harrassment and send police or security toward me. Churches seem way too traditional to be very boring. (-_-')

Rip @Popealope that happens far too often online. Best thing you can do to combat that is really take it slow, a catfish will have trouble keeping up a persona for a long time. Best of luck in your search for that special someone~

I actually I was wrong, going through my old emails, about 5 years ago I tried joining site called paganshire, it was even smaller than this one and then shut down a month after I joined.

@Makoto I think that's the best solution but it also has the problem of being a bit time consuming. I mean, not really time consuming but you got to give attention to someone for a long time and being suspicious that the person could be a catfish could make you look not interested enough, I dunno... but it's still the best solution. Being more patient than the catfish could work too but that is also long-term. How do catfishes work? Do they have multiple preys at the same time? Do they wanna invest a bit of time and let go if the prey isn't biting fast enough? Are they willing to make it last as long as possible? Must depend on each individual catfish :/

@cupcakerin true, unfortunately the world is rigged to favor those who break the rules. At the end of the day all we can do is hope that people will do the right thing.

I've always kind of wondered what tinder was like for people and if it's really like how they describe as just a fuck tool?

I tried a few out but I review to pay for an account on those sites, it feels degrading. So I never get any messages even as the likes pile up.