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75% of single men dating online looking 4 love, not sex

frasia2162
This article is really inaccurate. Several studies WITH ACTUAL evidence & surveys prove this wrong. 65% of "Normal" (the same type of media stereotypical 'Social butterflies') men and women on the internet look for casual sex the same amount. Women more often just flat out said they wanted sex and men said they wanted relationships if and only if the partner would be willing to give regular sexual activities. People on this website aren't the type of people the "study" is talking about. Only really social people. But seriously. Women tend to have less luck with relationships due to standards and picky-ness in men. It's just that the girls that are looking for actual intimate (non sex-bases) relationships don't claim they were "Friend-zoned" or make a huge ass stink when a guy turns them down saying things like "Guys only want pretty girls that cheat on them." So this leads people to believe that women have more luck. But an ugly man can easily get a chick, but when it is the other way around, it's more of a joke or a "he must have been desperate" ordeal. The reason why they say this is so, according to a Texas A&M study, is because men aren't as able to accept rejection that easy and when they are turned down, they tend to become angry and try to blame everyone else rather than themselves. Women tend to feel more self loathing and take it out on themselves saying that that one person not liking them is is a result of many flaws that they "believe" to have that will cause no one to want them. The second reason is because women are always feeling (instinctively) competitive with other women when it comes to getting men. That's why a lot of "Feminist" lash out at the "Dolled" up women, stating that they are the reason why men view them as objects when, in reality, it makes them feel less attractive to men. Fun fact: more than 20 University studies show that women are viewed as objects when wearing less than 30% covering clothing. Make-up has nothing to do with being viewed as an object, BUT it can make a woman less attractive when wearing more make-up. So when "Feminazis" claim that make-up makes one an object, it's due to their own fear of men not wanting them and this leads to more women trying to reject "men" before men can reject them... and the thing is just that more and more women who get reject slowly turn to this as a way to avoid hurt feelings. Kinda went off on this, but kinda wanna state that Both genders are equally into casual sex, and women feel so inadequate about their sexual appeal that they take it hard on their own wants. I'll shut up now.
pjsmename
I wouldn't say it's just men or women; nor would I give a % on how many of both genders go looking for sex. Honestly. everyone wants sex. It is a natural act of our nature, some just like to abuse it. You may have the best intention of finding true love or your soul mate. However, sex is always a bonus. Do not fool yourselves into thinking you do not want sex, just make sure you have the right person and you're both agreeing on the fact you wish to do it with one another. =P Good luck with both!
jas
Pretty much the first step to mutual understanding is that there is more similarities in vanity and selfishness between the sexes. I don't see many guys here blame the friend zoning on rejection. In fact, it seems some accept it as the only way to get close to the object of their affection. Both genders crave a physical connection and an emotional one. Sometimes people are selfish enough to acquire that from two separate people.
jesus5091
95% of statistics published about arbitrary topics are baseless lies. Of those, 65% are pretty lame. 10% are amusing and 25% are not worth investing time into. The remaining 5% exists in metal cases guarded by unicorns in the vatican under the arc of the Covenant. ^_^ Factoid of the day: In Africa, every 60 minutes... 1 hour passes!!!
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